‘It’s Always About Love: 7 Insights to Enhance Any Relationship”

I know, I know, you are never supposed to use the words “always” or “never,” however sometimes they are both completely appropriate and accurate. I recently did a radio show where listeners called in with their questions.  The hostess asked the listeners to come up with very deep, insightful questions as the topic had been on “multiple realms.” Ninetynine percent called in with questions about their relationships, their significant other, and/or if someone wonderful was coming into their life. Typical. The reason is, we all love love. Going “deep,” finding our soul’s purpose, isn’t at the top of the priority list. Once love is dialed, well then – maybe.

 

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I know many single people who would give anything to have someone wonderful in their lives, from individuals in their 20s to people in their 80s. “Love still reigns triumphant.” Learning about today’s dating world is definitely not for the faint of heart either. Trust me on that coming out of marriage. It’s a crazy frenzy. So even getting “Out there” to connect with like-minded people to maybe, possibly contemplate a relationship feels scary. But after knowing what love offers, it is so worth the effort. Again, who doesn’t love being in love? The question is why do we always – there’s that word again – struggle with and in relationships and have to begin – again.

“when love becomes a reason 

we fly with kings tonight

and come down

with an empire of our own.”

(Empire of Our Own, RAIGN)

Well for starters, there is the difference between men and women, how we think, act and more importantly,  believe.  Even as I write this though, we can’t lump all women under one umbrella, nor men under one category. We are the same and yet not. But even so, we do think radically different on how we see and do relationships with each other. Men would like women to be more like men, and women would like men to be more like women. (Thus the reason why we love gay men- they think like us!)  It’s a great concept – a little more testosterone here, a lot more estrogen there, and our thinking would become more homogenized, similar and shared. Perhaps there would be fewer wars, richer intimacy, better communication, more action, more receptivity, more relationships, fewer marriages. Hmmmm. It’s quite the thought.

However, I’m a believer we were created as men and women for wonderful reasons, our strong differences as powerful mirrors for each other.  The male/female, yin/yang generates mystery and magic that only our differences can magnify and enhance, our masculine and feminine minds creating better working solutions to common challenges and larger issues. Herein lies magnificent synergistic balance and harmony between the “principles” because we see the world through uniquely colored lenses. It also ignites the chemistry between individuals. (This is also true within the various sexual worlds as no matter what, there still reigns the male female dynamic. It just “Is.”) We are also here to dive into the energies of each dynamic at a human level, to better comprehend these larger universal polar, give/take principles as they are everywhere throughout the cosmos.

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Would I truly want my partner to be more feminine? Cry more, dissect every emotional hurdle to finite detail, take an hour getting ready, watch romantic comedies? Well, watching romantic comedies would be great….but the rest? Probably not.  I love the masculine principle, the strength, the charm, the charisma of what it means to be male, to create, construct, build, negotiate, seduce. I love it.

And on the flip, would a strong male really want his feminine counterpart to never dress up, curse insatiably, constantly troll for the next possible dessert (there sure would be a lot of people in the bedroom) talk guy-buddy-raunch…well maybe? See, therein could be difference. Maybe that Is really what men want? (Wink wink) Just adding levity. I do know strong loving masculine, well-dressed men that love women being all female, gorgeous mysterious creatures whose timeless alchemy enhance their lives.

The world is large. Love is bigger.

Bigger truths on why relationships are challenged are multi-layered:

1. At an earthly level, “pure loving communication”especially since we are in different countries, different camps of thought, is a giant hurdle. Communication and listening are the two most vitally important links to greater long-term loving, intimate and sustaining relationships. Most break down at this level. The reason is fear. Fear of reprisal, rejection, of learning answers they don’t want to hear, vs listening to gain wisdom and understanding and deeper knowing.

2. To find someone of equal or greater value to match us, we have to step up our game. We have to be more of who we are. Why? Because then we like us better. And then and only then will a greater connection happen.

3. Empathy and understanding on both sides of the playing field go a long way. Life has many roads. Giving the other a hand to hold instead of a cold shoulder goes the long distance.

4.  Give the other the freedom to be themselves. And if that mirror doesn’t reflect you, it’s okay to find the one who does.

5. Complacency- the biggest death trap. People as soon as they’re single, lose the weight they didn’t care about, get involved, ask questions, stay interested in someone new. Where were these attributes in the relationship that just dissolved?

6. Action and receptivity. Give and take. In time these can become skewed. One gives more, one receives more. It’s learning balance on both sides of the coin and respect for the other of giving and receiving. Make it a daily mantra.

7. We are here to learn both sides of the universal coin – masculine and feminine. We choose both sexes throughout time to learn the dynamics of the other frequency. It’s in this knowing, we have the greatest opportunities for deeper understanding and cosmic unity, knowing we too have literally walked a mile in each other’s shoes. So try them -once again- on and see if a wonderful change ensues.

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So whether you’re in a long-term or new relationship, choose today as the perfect day to step it up, clearly communicate and make it your best connection, relationship yet. It’s up to each of us to make it so. And if it doesn’t curl your toes, have the courage, strength and most importantly, honesty to move forward towards new blue skies. It’s only fair to both involved.

If you’re single and interested in a loving relationship, make that effort, first with yourself, then get out in the world. It’s the only way it’ll happen.

 

Here’s to relationships of every size, shape, and color. Here’s to Love in all it’s guises.

 

Cosmic sunshine to you.

 

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“Breathe the Sun into Your Soul’

Days run by so quickly. Or is it just me?  I have felt our 24 hours shrink to 15 and now… I feel we are down to about 12 hours in a day. I realize it’s all illusion however, it’s how I feel. We are so barraged with information on an hourly basis from news,  emails, texts, phone calls, and every other kind of social media outlet, it can be inundating. Not enough hours to do it all. My natural tendency is just to procrastinate, walk away,  and then move helter-skelter through it. I’ve been imagining a way to organize it in a sane, positive, constructive manner, at the same time keeping a happy attitude and expanding my creative process.

Yesterday, I had a reading with a wonderful woman who is living in Italy. The visual she provided to me was the perfect antidote, the remedy to the situation.

Sit in the sun….

and breathe the sun into your soul…☀

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The ancients revered the sun as a God for multiple reasons; it provides life for the planet, creates warmth and energy and fire. This fire we can extend into our beings, into our souls, to grab the potentiality of what is around us. The heat is also soothing, happy, and relaxing, paradoxically invigorating our attitudes. By taking regular moments to sit, breathe in the warmth, down to the cellular-soul level, it can shift our perception of any event, or deadline or demand. It’s the recharge we are clamoring for.

Please consider joining me as I sit in the warm spring sunshine. Let’s grab our highest potentiality, invigorating our souls with laughter, happiness and connection. We too can blossom, in the heat, away from the cyberspace onslaught.

 

Cosmic sunshine to you.

 

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“Death is Such a Misnomer~Nothing Ever Dies: Hilarious Messages Continue”

It’s been over a year since my husband passed and six months since my dad exited his skinny body. I’m continually asked if I’m still in communication with either one? Truth is, Yes. Regularly. Dale with his perverbial comedic attitude is up to his usual tricks. Saturday night was cold. I drove into Bend with my heater set at 80. Dale’s side was always set at 65 when he was here physically. Now, both sides are at 80. Hey! It’s my car and I can be happy, right?  I was listening to my music on my iphone, keeping warm, rocking out.

I joined  some friends for some live music and dance. We were there for a couple of hours, meeting people, sharing stories, dancing. Great night. End of the evening, I jumped in the car, pushed the ignition. The “radio” was on, with a different preset, a station I haven’t  listened to for a while, and both heaters were turned down low. The passenger side was set at 63, mine was 71.  Trust me, I never have mine set at 71 ~ ever~ unless it’s the summertime. And when your car and iphone are synced, the music will automatically come back on, not go to radio.  I believe in magic obviously. However I don’t believe car dials can just change randomly without some help. This has been the continual go-to connection, electronics, because I feel they are  the most easily accessed conduit between the worlds. My son and I are still talking about that otherworldly app.

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Okay funny! Right now as I’m writing this, the previous sentence was repeated, word for word, below. Getting messages Now as I write! Electronics again.

Easily accessed conduit between the world. My son and I are still talking about that otherworldly app.

This is how easy it is to communicate when we pay attention to the signals given regularly. They’re obviously different than picking up the phone or hugging, however they’re just as real.  I never feel alone. My dad too checks in as he and I were so amazingly close my entire life. Honestly I spend 98% of my time alone yet never feel that to be my reality.

I have another story to share, however, it’s not mine. It’s a Dale story though.  Last August, a family friend came to visit from Canada. Our families have known one another since I was a teenager.   We had made an agreement years before that if we were ever single at the same time we would let each other know. The timing lined up. He came to share my son’s and dad’s birthday celebration (my parents were thrilled) at my cabin. Mr. Canada decided that he could swim across the lake with the kids as he was feeling all spry and spunky. I don’t think that he factored in cold water, wind, and the distance. As he was swimming he became incredibly tired and winded. At one point he even thought he wasn’t going to make it – seriously. At the most critical juncture, Mr. Canada while struggling, had an inspiration, this tap on his shoulder if you will, to stop right there in the far reaches of the lake and put his feet down. You have to understand he’s out in the middle of the lake he’d never swam in before. He discovered a very small piece of sand maybe 6 inches wide. After that the sand dropped away into deeper depths. His feet and toes gladly rested while his breath returned, regaining a sense  of equilibrium before he headed back towards the cabin. He admitted he felt it was Dale who saved his life. The decision at that moment to find ground was an overriding emotion triggered from a source who knew the lake. Dale helped him from where he was/is in the universe. Pretty damn special ~ because as he did, he was helping me, the family, as Mr Canada is in our lives now. It was only one week later dad jumped this plane.

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I love the magic! I love the Love!

Isn’t it grand the possibilities, the truth of what’s available, if we listen with our hearts?

PS as I’ve typed in a title several times, it’s erased, literally erased and I have had to start all over. Again. And no, it’s not some virus as I bought a new device. It’s hilarious! Thx Dale. Maybe there’s some help from dad too.

 

Addendum: I’ve been looking for trip photos from 2012 when Dale and I took a month camping in the back of our truck, before camper days. The last hurrah was Banff. I introduced Dale to Mr Canada. I took pictures to mark the event. I’d scanned my phone and my iPad for photos from that part of the adventure; nothing. Two days ago I was reminding Mr. Canada of these pictures and mentioned I thought they were stored on my dismantled computer. Last night, out of No Where, there they were, all seven photos – on my phone like they’d been there all along ~ randomly~ as there are no other photos from 2012 Canada and Banff. So you tell me?!

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Every time I mention or say something, find something, that person or connection shows up almost immediately. Now not all of this is Dale, he’s about the things and events related to him. The rest is the synchronicity of the universe. Magic baby! Magic!

 

Cosmic sunshine to you.

 

Our loved ones are always with us. Never feel communication isn’t possible, because it is.

 

Candia Sanders is an International Medical Intuitive, Healer, Author and Speaker -an Eternal Optimist- who has helped countless thousands of people ease their medical issues, navigate important relationships and find their soul’s purpose and life direction. Candia is also the author of the transcendent new book, “Soul Rays: Discover the Vibratory Frequency of Your Soul“.

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“It’s Always All About Us”

Funny how it works. We think “it’s” outside ourselves, all the turmoil, stress, chaos of relationships, work, politics …the emotional triggers…however the more I do inner work – explore greater potentials- I’m in total alignment with the Hoponopono concept and Buddhist principles, it’s our story, our garbage we need to clean up. If there’s an emotional trigger from an event or something someone says, or an expectation that sets up an uncomfortable reaction – anger, hurt, sadness, rejection, fear, etc. etc-  in our solar plexus, our lower backs, neck, our thinking, well then, it’s time to do some self examination. It’s a much more gratifying and successful mission than complaining, grousing, judging, blaming and shaming.

Hoponopono is the Polynesian belief we focus direct healing energy within ourselves on whatever the situation or distress the outer worlds are presenting to us. The mantra is, “I’m sorry, Forgive me, I love you.” We can rearrange those words in any fashion. The concept is we have all the woes and ills of the world within us as the timelines are deep and far reaching. Even if you can’t wrap around multiple lifetimes, just the genetic DNA of cellular memory connects us to every ancestor’s deeds and misdeeds. Thus a ton of forgiveness work needs to happen. This is just as important for all the political strife. Go within, heal us before we shout and point fingers.

I’ve known one of my emotional triggers is sex. Others don’t flinch when I cringe. For others their triggers can be money, security, food, safety, injustice, disceit, power and control and/or a myriad of other insecurity issues. Triggers are interesting. I feel my triggers in my solar plexus, third chakra challenges of self worth, esteem, will power, confidence. It goes to my core of “I’m not enough.” I know some of these fears are not mine but carrydowns from my genetic pool but others are definitely mine. I attract people to me that trigger those buttons, forcing me to examine my beliefs, my ‘self,’ and walk my talk. Obviously if people or situations show up that instill within ourselves triggering fears and create reasons to step back and examine, there’s a bigger reason, something that needs addressing and healing.

Something said recently anchored in my over-critical mind, spinning round and round on my lazy-susan examining table, as I tried to make sense of it, not take personally and see it from another angle, a male perspective. I actually work hard on bridging the male/female gaps as there are always two sides and the male/female mind differences can be chasms apart especially when it comes to sex. Again, this is just my trigger. Rather than do my regular cross-examination conversation, I decided to take a different approach. I went into a quiet space, and started repeating the “I’m sorry, Forgive me, I love you,” mantra to all aspects, all timelines, all pieces of me. I know these also represent all of us as we are all One whether we really believe or not. It’s still truth. I know every side of the human sexual story has been mine to witness and experience from betrayal, affairs, control, prostitution, straight, gay, trans-everything, abuse, rape pillage, disrespect, whore, slut, orgies- hell- every dark sexual misogynistic misuse of power and disconnection.

“I’m sorry. Forgive me. I love you.”

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I can honestly say, without doing anything else, my over-active mind quieted. The weight I’d felt around the issue has completely disappeared. Even the exact content of how things were presented have softened, no longer having impact. By forgiving myself, my lineage, I have no judgement, criticism or reaction to someone else. How can I when some aspect of myself is just as complicit in the actions?

My invitation is to “look within” the next time an instant “re”action is elicited, (“re” means to repeat, do again, highlighting the past) or an emotional insecurity is triggered. Quiet the mind and repeat the mantra, like counting shells on a beach, or rosary beads, or taking steps around a labyrinth. Breathe steadily. Believe our silent yet powerful actions are making huge and paramount changes if only within ourselves. Then we truly are the change we need to see in the world. Remember it really is always all about us.

Cosmic sunshine to you.

Sex and misappropriation of intention, are two of the biggest, most critical areas on the planet in need of clean-up and change. It begins with us. So pull out the mops and cleaners, scrub brushes and towels. Put on the apron and cap and let’s all go to work. From the inside out.

 

Candia Sanders is an International Medical Intuitive, Healer, Author and Speaker -an Eternal Optimist- who has helped countless thousands of people ease their medical issues, navigate important relationships and find their soul’s purpose and life direction. Candia is also the author of the transcendent new book, “Soul Rays: Discover the Vibratory Frequency of Your Soul“.

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“We are Crystalline Soul Structures”

I love living in the snow. I’ve had snow on the ground since early December. It makes my home bright and happy and light, very light. I love standing under the big open sky as magical ice crystals fall all around. Each one special unique rare exceptional! Like us. Just like us!

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Everyone has their own beliefs and for each, their beliefs are true and real. We each create our own construct. The point I’d emphasize is to question, make sure they’re your beliefs not someone else’s placed on you because they worked for them. In other words, question Every flipping thing till it feels right in your heart. With that being said,  I’ll never tell anyone how to believe however I can share what I see to be true.

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From my perspective traveling out there in the universal energies we are so unique and amazing and extraordinary- I love that ~ Extra Ordinary ~ every breath we take is magical. We truly are like snowflakes, our crystaline structures unimaginably beautiful, singular, yet part of the entire snow fall. We are from snow/soul clusters, our soul mates, our special loving buddies we do the dance with regularly through the eons. I feel this is what it means to find “our tribe.” These souls understand us better than other souls as we’ve been everything ~ lover, mother, father, brother, sister, friend enemy, fire, earth, water, wind, to each other. Our soul mateys. This is where we can find our best love matches. We know when we feel it in our hearts. The other matches are for learning what works or… doesn’t.

Twin Flames? Perhaps they’re the real meal deal? Personally I don’t believe there’s just one perfect match. It’d be like saying all those other beautiful and unique snowflakes don’t fit our specialized needs. Won’t make up the light bright snow fields. Doesn’t work for me, however that doesn’t make it untrue for others. I believe when we step up to our highest essence, our hearts can burn together as in twin flame style. We have to do it though, take the risks, the dark falls till we create our crystalline structure in its highest magnificence ready to mirror love that’s our unique match.

Our soul crystalline structures are far from delicate, in fact I believe the opposite is true. I believe we are strong and powerful and full of so much life, love and wisdom. However as a whole, maybe “hole” as in a big dark one, would be more appropriate with what our outer world is showing, mirroring to us, we have forgotten. Time for shoveling I’m thinking…..We have to remember. Remember…

…We are but one small snowflake separate yet magically connected, to our other special snowflakes that are scattered in other time constructs, parallel lives, making snowfields, living out various aspects of our ever evolving soul personity matrix. Our snowflake maker, (our higher selves-a good 75% of who we are) is in the higher realms, like Oz, continuing to make sure the snowflakes continue to distribute their wealth of design.

We are ever evolving. Our crystal designs are sparkling brighter as our frequencies align with the earth’s as she spins at higher hertz, through the cosmos. The most important thing to take in-again feel this in your heart -is we are completely 100% in charge of our design, our world. 100%. We have the ability to merge with the eternal cosmic energies to actualize our adventures. That’s why we are a unique prototype, a rare snowflake in the cosmos. We stepped outside the matrix decades ago. We just didn’t realize it, being still caught up in misperceptions, and eons-old systems of behavior and belief.

And we wonder why UFO sitings are up as they line up in our veritable cosmic parking lot checking us out? We stepped off the matrix merry-go-round.  We are helping reshape the things to come. We impact the multiple layers and levels throughout the universe and various timeframes. They’re here with their popcorn and sandchairs waiting to see what’s next in our Cosmic docu-comedy. And you think I’m kidding…

As our crystalline structure becomes more brilliant, we may experience moments of equilibrium imbalances, as if the floor just moved, or the earth sneezed, or feelings of alonenessness (which is ironically the opposite of truth,) health issues in need of addressing, which are related to old emotional baggage coming to the forefront. It’s just the light becoming brighter. It’s important to never forget through all the personal changes, we are all unique snowflakes, creating snow covered cosmic mountains ever more brilliant. Seek out your soul mateys, listen from your heart. Make snow angels with your snowmates.

And like Dr Emoto’s incredible water research has shown, each emotion changes the structure of the water whether frozen or not. Our gloriously radiant snowflake’s crystalline structure becomes ever more lustrous with love being the creative binding architectural force.

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Knowing this, that we construct our reality, what are we going to do?  Be?

We are our own staggeringly beautiful unique crystalline snowflakes. Let’s dance together under the magnificent diamond glittered sky. Making magic. Making white carpets of brilliance.

 

Cosmic sunshine to you.

 

 

Candia Sanders is an International Medical Intuitive, Healer, Author and Speaker who has helped countless thousands of people ease their medical issues, navigate important relationships and find their soul’s purpose and life direction. Candia is also the author of the transcendent new book, “Soul Rays: Discover the Vibratory Frequency of Your Soul“.

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“Loving the Pain”

I don’t know about you but I love Love! Every aspect of it. I Love life, even the pitfalls and pain. I’m stronger, deeper, more whole because of it. I welcome it, embrace it in every ounce of who I am, even when I hold things at arms length while I wrap my head and heart around the confusion, the insecurities, till I feel comfortable. We all need to feel safe and comfortable. I believe “Loving the Pain” is essential.

We’d love to avoid the superhighway of hurt, sadness, gut-wrenching Pain, however, we wouldn’t grow if we did. I know a lot of people who have chosen to move into a noncommittal, uninvolved, cautious, almost restrained relationship with life, themselves, with others. It keeps the heart in reserve, wary. Oh yeah….heart attacks….an unhealthy bi-product. Bigger truth here~ we, you and I have all chosen to be here so we can learn, dive, feel, be. If we didn’t experience the intensity of the road, we’d miss the beauty.

One thing I’ve learned well is when things are off balance or uncomfortable or painful I always bring it back to me, to myself to see what’s out of balance within me. Dive into the ooohey gooey mess. When things are said or acted upon that create an emotional trigger – well guess what? It’s about you, me, something within us that requires attention and healing and love. Even through death. Death is about trust ironically. Trust that all is well and perfect and the way it’s supposed to be even when it feels the opposite. Love the Pain. Why? Because I believe in the divinity  of life and love and relationships and pain.

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When we Love the Pain it actually disappears like smoke from a night fire, evaporating and melting into the cosmos, like the transformation of wood to flame to sparks to ash to dissolving vapor, an alchemical metamorphosis of form and energy, of Pain into Love.

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When life throws a few curves remember we’ve the skills and most of all, Heart, to maneuver the corners, crossings and intersections. Loving the love, loving the Pain, loving the beauty of the journey. Ironically it’s what feed our souls.

 

Cosmic sunshine to you.

 

Candia Sanders is an International Medical Intuitive, Healer, Author and Speaker who has helped countless thousands of people ease their medical issues, navigate important relationships and find their soul’s purpose and life direction. Candia is also the author of the transcendent new book, “Soul Rays: Discover the Vibratory Frequency of Your Soul“.

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“The “Heart” of the Matter”

This is what everything in this world, boils down to: “The “Heart” of the Matter.” Because without “Heart”nothing matters. Matter literally disappears in importance. Simple.

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Without “Heart:”

We can’t love deeply, truly, completely.

We keep our relationships stuck in the mental arena, with love being intellecualized, real feelings never actualized. We never truly love.

We really don’t care?

We eat unconsciously polluting our bodies with garbage.

We respect power and greed more than someone’s good intent.

We “allow” health care to run like a business.

We vote in Illuminati to rule our world.

We take to the streets rioting without really knowing why we are there.

We destroy property and vandalize without conscience.

We  throw stones of cruelty and negativity over differing  beliefs.

We don’t speak our truths.

We have sex for sex without consciousness.

We pollute without consequence.

We brutalize animals.

We terrorize  humans.

We make religion more important than the message.

We don’t tell others we love them.

We don’t recognize our connection to the universe.

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With “Heart:”

We love truly, madly, deeply, Whole-Heartedly!

We love unconditionally.

We care for others and ourselves.

We feed our bodies lovingly with healthy fuels.

We honor great intentions and support good actions.

We have health care based on cause and effect.

We have a government for the people by the people.

We take to the streets to clean up garbage and fix our infrastructure.

We clean up our properties and help others do the same.

We invite our neighbors to share in their culture, stories and beliefs.

We communicate lovingly with our families to maintain a healthy foundation.

We make love with our bodies, hearts and minds.

We clean up our lands.

We love our animals.

We walk in service with our fellow traveler’s.

We share our “spirit” welcoming other’s beliefs with open arms.

We tell someone daily we love them.

We feel connectedness to All that Is.

We leave this plane with nothing more than “Heart” ~ all the wildly intoxicating juicy and raw emotions and feelings we have delved into over a lifetime. Or Not!  That’s it. We can’t take anything else with us. Far too many run from diving into the “Heart”of their fears and biggest aspirations because either side of the coin, failure or success, is far too scary. We operate then from a place of complacency, negativity, complaining, turning our power over, never acting consciously, essentially hanging out in the unhealthy O-zone. “O” is for obstinate, obdurate, obsessive, oppressive, opinionated, obsequious, obscene, obtuse, obtrusive, opprobrious. And we wonder why relationships don’t work? Why we don’t work? Holy hell!

It’s time for the new O-Zone, with optimism at the Heart of matters!

Speak up, say the truth even if it hurts, dig in, find your core, feel your “Heart.” Go to “The “Heart” of the Matter.” Act everyday from this place of deep respect, honor, truth, justice, integrity. LOVE. Because in the end, it’s the only thing that truly matters.

Do it now. And if you can’t, I’ll hold your hand till you’re able.

 

Cosmic sunshine to you.

 

In honor of Dale D. Ross who died one year ago today who’s hand I held till he left with his Heart intact.

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Candia Sanders is an International Medical Intuitive, Healer, Author and Speaker who has helped countless thousands of people ease their medical issues, navigate important relationships and find their soul’s purpose and life direction. Candia is also the author of the transcendent new book, “Soul Rays: Discover the Vibratory Frequency of Your Soul“.

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