“Will Powers and Neverland: Are they Compatible Companions?”

Oh Willy.  Our absent friend and supporter of good choices. We miss you. Where have you been?

Yes I’m talking about Mr. Will Powers. Our masculine base of strength and power.

In a world where hedonism and entitlement are high, addictions and over-consumption are normal, from food to sex to drugs to shopping, you-name-it, our seat of Will Power is all but invisible to non-existent. Our Will Power to follow through, say no when needed, say yes when applicable, be responsible, take action, be the adult. The will power to take initiative, stay strong through adversity, be courageous; do the right thing.

My question: Why is our absent will power the norm rather than the exception? Honestly this is a huge question as well as social issue. All we have to do is look at the high numbers of addictions, obsesity rates, number of affairs, divorces, depression to deviant behavior to give this question a serious nod. But it’s bigger than that. We now use and manipulate our childhood challenges into ‘weapons of destruction’ to get what we want in the work place to our relationships, essentially using the PC acceptable credit card to by-pass personal responsibility. (Can you imagine this ever happening in the 1940’s after WWII?) Or this could just be my perception. The reason this is an issue is our mind/body/spirit is disconnected combined with the inability to tap into our inner resources, our strengths, confidences and inner resolve.

In other words, it’s our missing Will Power. This vital ingredient equates to and supports our self confidence, self esteem and personal convictions. The reasons we fall short are multifaceted however one critical piece is the child within runs the show, making choices and decisions rather than our adult selves, our adult mind. We become stuck in our child archetype; this unfettered child pattern takes over our psyche and hinders strong decisions and smart choices. The child says yes in a no situation. Or no when yes is the best and smartest direction. The child says “Yes, I want more candy, I deserve that piece of chocolate, I desire those $500 dollar shoes, I crave sex with someone I just picked up and care less about. Yes to a new car when the personal debt is high. I want more.” The open emotional crevices become filled with the gunk, muck and mire left over from our childhood combined with the current collected debris. And we wonder why our nervous systems are taxed, anxiety is high, weight weighing the nation in illness. Perhaps it’s time to reassess.

The child is a pattern when used appropriately in an adult is a fantastic addition to our personal archetypal arsenals. It’s our excitement and enthusiasm for life, the thrill and joy of exploring, experiencing new things or repeating events because they bring joy. It’s the magic in our lives the child keeps alive and resuscitated through our golden years. The child that delivers gaiety and eagerness, fascination and spontaneity. Yet when the child within an acting adult is internally and unconsciously seeking unresolved safety, security, love, acceptance, support, and nurturing, those missing emotions drive the direction instead of the strong mature adult compass keeping the needle pointed north. Poor choices, annoying behaviors or completely irresponsible habits ensue and continue.

Some people thrive in their child, choosing Neverland and Peter Pan over growing up and taking responsibility. They’ll tell you it’s a great place to reside, hang out. And in a lot of ways it can be. However it can be rough on relationships from close partnerships to being a parent. If the partner is in child mode to the adult, the relationship will eventually fall apart as incestuousness is not sexy nor appealing, not too mention the spouse who is then fostering another child in the house. It can become incredibly tiresome expediting the dissolution. If the child archetype is dominant in the parent, desiring to be their children’s friend, acting childlike instead of the guiding adult, the child or children can become resentful and angry and/or they take on the parental role which is not theirs to own or carry.

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Honestly if the person is unaware of their Neverland tendency the revolving door of perpetual relationships, mishaps, addictions, poor choices will continue. Staying the child is not sustainable. Hopefully at this point someone will be their mirror to help them resolve old childhood issues and nurture their abandoned hearts with love, thus supporting their inner resolve and esteem. These loving friends can also share being a ‘youthful adult’ is even more rewarding than being the ‘forever child.’ In time perhaps these Peter Pans or Wendy’s can eventually wake up and shift their own awareness. Or not. Everyone has free will.

On a physical level, the seat of will power is in the solar plexus, our third chakra energy center that transcends time and space. It’s a masculine force field available for daily use to maximize our self esteem, confidence, resolve. It’s also the first place physically of intuition. “I felt that in my gut. It’s a gut feeling; I just know it.” This truly from a spiritual location, is where humanity’s evolving frequencies reside. We are in constant struggle with our global power center, our ability to empower or disempower those around us from our family to other nations. Humanity is energetically working to upgrade, shift, and move up the electrical ladder into our heart centers, a vibratory location that has the ability to transform how we do humanity. Literally.

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If you realize Peter or Wendy has too strong a grip on your daily activities, choices and behaviors, just know you have the ability anytime to assess and change course. You can nurture and love the inner child within. You can grow up, mature, take responsibility, be courageous. You can be resourceful and enthusiastic all the while utilizing your strongest strengths to say no or yes. You can embrace the joys in life, yet work through issues in the adult mind. You can move to a place of neutrality and observe the past from a failsafe position. You can look in the mirror and see the truth. You can be playful and flexible. Everything is possible. Every option is available.

And you can fly every night through the stars with Peter and Wendy, your Will inside strong, adept and playful.

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Cosmic sunshine to you.

 

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Every possibility is a possible option.”

 

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“Where is Will When We Need Him?”

Seriously. Where’s Will?

Have you seen him? He’s been missing for how long? How many years? Decades? It’s getting frustrating. Scary actually.

Will Powers: Masculine, strong, determined, full of confidence and self esteem. Ready to jump into the fray, stand up for others, do the right thing. Makes great choices and wise decisions. Stays positive in the face of adversity. Is mentally sharp, clever, shrewd and observant. Is a Big-Picture person. Has dry wit and verve. Stays abreast of important information and historical implications. Is knowledgeable and ‘experience’ educated. Has the strength to say yes when appropriate and no when needed. Stays healthy, athletic and flexible. Is vital and energetic. Stays out of embroiled hot-beds of scandal and dead-end opinions. Is loyal and preserving. Willing to lend a hand and shirt. Is your best friend.

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Have you seen Will lately?

If you have please let me know. We are in definite, perhaps even desperate need of personal leadership and strength. For all of us. In all of us. Contact info below.

 

Cosmic sunshine to you. ☀️

 

 

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“Ghosts and Hauntings: Four Perspectives on the Reality of Ghostly Apparitions. An ‘All Hallow’s Eve’ Intel”

All Hallow’s Eve. I don’t think I’ve ever written on Halloween before however after gazing at the 50 most haunted places in America I thought it might be fun to offer up a point of view about these interestingly spooky and negatively-charged locations.

There are as many ideas, thoughts and speculative concepts about ghosts and haunted areas as there are locations. There are far too many world sightings and experiences to negate the idea that something beyond our vision is actually happening and real.  Funny though how some minds are closed to the idea of a larger reality beyond their perception. From my Pyschic view, I feel it’s incredibly naive and seriously arrogant to believe what you see is what you get. There’s so much more.

Back to ghosts and hauntings. Without going into the historical reiteration of All Hallow’s Eve where it’s speculated the veils between the worlds thin and communication with the so-called dead is easier, ghosts or energy signatures have been part of our collective narrative for millennia.

I feel there are several ghostly points of view and all are ironically correct per location. Nothing is static. What works for one haunted area might be a different frequency and spin at another. Obviously my opinion. All the ghost hunters out there might concur though.

1. Stuck souls: These are souls based on their own limited perspective of themselves within the collective consciousness, feel they are not worthy of pursuing the Light and moving into the greater expansion that is possible. It goes back to the old adage “I’d rather stay here (like a bad marriage) because it’s a known quantity than move onto something new and unknown” such as the higher light frequencies. Their energy signatures are stuck in the ethers, their vibrations materializing from time to time based on their awareness at any given time. In truth there is always consciousness whether in form or ghostly vapors (in our eyes.) Eventually, in time, all souls move on. It’s up to each individual blueprint as to when.

2. A common story that stays within our collective is if there is unrequited love or a tale of scurrilous behavior and deceit that ended a person’s life, the soul sticks around till the truth comes to light. I believe this is also a strong narrative and true.

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3. Parallel timeframes: I feel this one is incredibly accurate and real. As Einstein shared, all time is concurrent, all is happening Now in this moment. All timeframes are in this place and space in the timespace continuum. Wild concept and difficult to wrap our minds around however it’s the truth scientifically.

For concurrent timeframe imagery, imagine a vast geological discovery where the layers and strata of millions of years are all compressed into thin layers of information. Everything in the world and all time frames happened here. When geologists explore each strata they uncover the story of each epoch. They come alive. (In your mind use the imagery of Jurassic Park as a way of seeing through a different lens; everything is alive. Now.)

Taking that a step further, each timeframe still exits in the ethers. Where you are exactly at this moment is concurrently alive and real in 1852, 1630, 543 BC as well as 2025 and on up the scale. You might not be there however the time-moment-essence is.

The energy signatures and movement people see and feel of supposed ghosts are actual people living their lives in another timeframe. During these moments the veils could possibly be more thin between the various minutes, days, and/or epochs. Another variable is at that particular moment the viewer is more aware, more psychically enhanced to see beyond their physical surroundings.

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Take for example the haunted sanitariums around the country where horrible and heinous events played out. Are these souls stuck? Yes. Are these moments still playing out in their timeframe? Yes. It’s a combo platter perhaps at some places, maybe one or the other at another location. It just simply depends. Again everything is mutable, nothing is static as previously suggested.

4. Portals: These are gateways or entrances into various dimensions and realities and universes. They’re essentially slides into another existence. Energy signatures, beings, souls can move from one dimension to the next if the gateway is known. This is the explanation of Big Foot and/or Yeti in my world. I believe they’re real, as are ghosts, ufo’s and on and on. I believe an energy signature can move from there to here and return. Their imprint is felt by those in the area. Perhaps they return or another energy signature does, however they are not locked into a particular location. They can appear where ever there is a gateway.

So on this day of All Hallows’ Eve, the question is, do you believe? What is truth for you?

Here’re to thin veils between the worlds…daily.

 

Cosmic sunshine to you.☀️

 

Candia Sanders is an international medical intuitive, high-frequency energy healer, motivator, speaker, teacher, author, the ultimate optimist, and outdoor enthusiast, who has helped thousands of people ease their medical issues, navigate important relationships and find their soul’s purpose and life direction. Candia, intuitive since early childhood, is the author of the transcendent book, “Soul Rays: Discover the Vibratory Frequency of Your Soul“. She has also written a lively magical and spiritual children’s adventure called “The Adventures of Jack Starr, In Hawaii.” “When Eagles Soar: From Diagnosis, to Death and to Open Dialogue” is her story through cancer and beyond, with her husband who died in 2016. Her goal is to create a new conversation about Death.

Upcoming books: “I Don’t Know, It’s a Mystery: 11 Prompts to Awaken Your Cosmic Connection” ”The Four R’s: Rules to Navigate Life’s Big Questions,” “Head Off, Heart On: Salacious Delights and Tantalizing Treats for Happy Relationships”

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“You Are Irradiant”

Imagine an incomparable moment

Intoxicatingly impassioned ~ ideal. 

Perhaps…intimate.

Irresistible. 

Intriguing. 

Infatuating.

Even idyllic.

Your impetuous nature

is tempered by

your heightened insight,

deep intuition,

inviting you to slow it down, 

invest in the intensity.

This is inimitable.

💕

You are irradiant.

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Cosmic sunshine to you☀️

PS: Obviously my exploration of the letter I in my alphabet dance. It’s been a fun adventure in creativeness.🌹

 

 

 

Candia Sanders is an international medical intuitive, high-frequency energy healer, motivator, speaker, teacher, author, the ultimate optimist, and outdoor enthusiast, who has helped thousands of people ease their medical issues, navigate important relationships and find their soul’s purpose and life direction. Candia, intuitive since early childhood, is the author of the transcendent book, “Soul Rays: Discover the Vibratory Frequency of Your Soul“. She has also written a lively magical and spiritual children’s adventure called “The Adventures of Jack Starr, In Hawaii.” “When Eagles Soar: From Diagnosis, to Death and to Open Dialogue” is her story through cancer and beyond, with her husband who died in 2016. Her goal is to create a new conversation about Death.

Upcoming books: “I Don’t Know, It’s a Mystery: 11 Prompts to Awaken Your Cosmic Connection” ”The Four R’s: Rules to Navigate Life’s Big Questions,” “Head Off, Heart On: Salacious Delights and Tantalizing Treats for Happy Relationships”

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“The Activation Point: How to Create Optimal Mental Foreplay”

The alarm blares startling you out of a deep warm happy slumber. You reach groggily for the button to turn the damn thing off, or push the snooze button for another blissful ten. It’s the Activation Point, the moment the brain goes from a calm meditative state to fully awake with no foreplay.  Personally I’m a fan of foreplay in any format.

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From my perspective, this blast of noise, sensation, and stress producing hormones is the norm in life, from joining the morning activities to being sideswiped over the course of the day with demands of immediate attention. There’s no foreplay. And we wonder why we are worn out, exhausted and just plain tired by the evening with no thought of foreplay with our significant loved one.?.? The Activation Point has been continually pushed all day.

Sooo? What to do? How to change the iternary? Add some foreplay? It starts with another mindful dance around the playground. Seriously. It begins in our minds. Imagine listening to a favorite song, the volume low and hushed then progressing to a reasonable level. This gradual progression is the desired state we want to achieve in any situation from waking up, to key workday moments, dealing with screaming children to sex.  We are in charge of how we perceive any situation. Imagine an Activation dial in our minds. Turn it off, then gradually to low and gentle, to mid range and then full throttle. We are in total control. In any given moment we can turn it down then slowly dial it up again to assess any situation and proceed accordingly. From a state of grace or out of control, holding the handle or at the end of the whip. It’s up to us.

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When we can get in the positive habit of keeping our own Activation Points dialed at our optimal progression it can literally turn the day around in a very positive way. Adrenal stress drops, energy builds, fatigue lessens. Then personal foreplay has the op to build momentum with pleasure the treasure chest at the end of the rainbow.

 

Cosmic sunshine to you.☀️

 

Candia Sanders is an international medical intuitive, high-frequency energy healer, motivator, speaker, teacher, author, the ultimate optimist, and outdoor enthusiast, who has helped thousands of people ease their medical issues, navigate important relationships and find their soul’s purpose and life direction. Candia, intuitive since early childhood, is the author of the transcendent book, “Soul Rays: Discover the Vibratory Frequency of Your Soul“. She has also written a lively magical and spiritual children’s adventure called “The Adventures of Jack Starr, In Hawaii.” “When Eagles Soar: From Diagnosis, to Death and to Open Dialogue” is her story through cancer and beyond, with her husband who died in 2016. Her goal is to create a new conversation about Death.

Upcoming books: “I Don’t Know, It’s a Mystery: 11 Prompts to Awaken Your Cosmic Connection” ”The Four R’s: Rules to Navigate Life’s Big Questions,” “Head Off, Heart On: Salacious Delights and Tantalizing Treats for Happy Relationships”

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“The Rising Rate of Obesity Equals the Rising Rate of Political Divisiveness”

With all the political wrangling and mongering, backstabbing, lying and cheating as a consistent and constant diet, no wonder the nation is obese. Seriously! The more everyone stays fed on the divisive and derisive menu, the sicker and fatter our nation becomes. Literally.

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Lets look at stats. I’m a believer in ratios and statistics to help clarify:

Obesity rates from 1990-2016: Obesity is usually determined by BMI (body mass index) measurements. Someone with a BMI of 30 or more is considered obese.
From 1990 to 2016, the average percentage of obese adults increased from 11.1% (for the 44 states and DC for which 1990 data are available) to 29.8%. As of 2016, nearly 38% of the US population was obese, with 8% falling into the extreme obesity category. Some states actually exceed 35% obesity
rates. These are scary stats. Not too mention the other huge reality: the majority of both young and old today are on average 15-30 lbs overweight which we consider normal – it is Not!

America! What is wrong with you?

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Now let’s compare the state of the union and giant chasm that engulfs America:

The bottom line is this: Across 10 measures that Pew Research Center has tracked on the same surveys since 1994, the average partisan gap has increased from 15 percentage points to 36 pointsIn other words there are so many feeling disenfranchised, victimized and whatever “izement” going, our beliefs about what is right or wrong continue to widen, the gulf between left and right becoming broader than the Atlantic.

Fascinating right? We are being spoon fed negativity by the tons, yet everyone stills eats from the same resources. (I was going to say troughs.) Don’t you think it’s time for a change-up in menus with new creative and healthy recipes in lifestyle and neighborly kindness? Goodness being extended across the aisles? Where are America’s values? In essence where is our self value?

Truth is a national change in obesity and political chasms will never change unless you and I both decide not to drink the damn koolaide. Stop the madness. Quit bickering, picking fights, harassing and complaining. Be pro-active not con-active. Decide to go on a diet of goodness, rich ideas and kindness to all. Treat everyone like we want to be treated. It’s a very simple recipe even our kindergarteners can learn and digest. And of course, stop eating sugar, wheat, processed and chemically-heavy foods!

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Every single second of every single moment of every single day we are graced by being on the planet, we have a choice. A choice to believe in the best. A choice to act on the best. A choice to be our best. And of course lose the negativity, lose the weight. Everyone will feel better with the positive ramifications spreading into our futures. We can choose to be healthy!

Be mindful of what you Fuel your mind and body on; it will determine your personal future.

We all create our own reality. It is universal law on a planet of attraction; like attracts like.

 

Cosmic sunshine to you.

 

Candia Sanders is an international medical intuitive, high-frequency energy healer, motivator, speaker, teacher, author, the ultimate optimist, and outdoor enthusiast, who has helped thousands of people ease their medical issues, navigate important relationships and find their soul’s purpose and life direction. Candia, intuitive since early childhood, is the author of the transcendent book, “Soul Rays: Discover the Vibratory Frequency of Your Soul“. She has also written a lively magical and spiritual children’s adventure called “The Adventures of Jack Starr, In Hawaii.” “When Eagles Soar: From Diagnosis, to Death and to Open Dialogue” is her story through cancer and beyond, with her husband who died in 2016. Her goal is to create a new conversation about Death.

Upcoming books: “I Don’t Know, It’s a Mystery: 11 Prompts to Awaken Your Cosmic Connection” ”The Four R’s: Rules to Navigate Life’s Big Questions,” “Head Off, Heart On: Salacious Delights and Tantalizing Treats for Happy Relationships”

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“How Long?”

 

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How long do we hold ourselves hostage

beat ourselves up over emaciated stories

quadmired in debilitating whirlpools

swirling counter clockwise

before we stop the destruction

forgive ourselves

let the present moment navigate our choices

rather than allowing the past dictate our decisions?

How long?

 

Our self imposed prisons

locked tight by our own keys

filter in light

even while we shut our eyes

keeping us in self recriminating darkness.

We thrive in the torment.

How long? Seriously?

How long is the sentence

before we decide to

create new stories?

*****

This is a-wake-the-hell-up

come-to-Jesus-moment

to stop the madness

get a grip

stepping into what we are here

to embrace

be

become.

its time to spin clockwise

create the orbit

of our hidden dreams.

It’s time.

 

 

Cosmic sunshine to you. ☀️

*for Veronica ~ and you did!

 

Candia Sanders is an international medical intuitive, high-frequency energy healer, motivator, speaker, teacher, author, the ultimate optimist, and outdoor enthusiast, who has helped thousands of people ease their medical issues, navigate important relationships and find their soul’s purpose and life direction. Candia, intuitive since early childhood, is the author of the transcendent book, “Soul Rays: Discover the Vibratory Frequency of Your Soul“. She has also written a lively magical and spiritual children’s adventure called “The Adventures of Jack Starr, In Hawaii.” “When Eagles Soar: From Diagnosis, to Death and to Open Dialogue” is her story through cancer and beyond, with her husband who died in 2016. Her goal is to create a new conversation about Death.

Upcoming books: “I Don’t Know, It’s a Mystery: 11 Prompts to Awaken Your Cosmic Connection” ”The Four R’s: Rules to Navigate Life’s Big Questions,” “Head Off, Heart On: Salacious Delights and Tantalizing Treats for Happy Relationships”

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