“What Do You Really Really Want?”

What do we really really want? Desire? Need? I believe these are the questions that underline the surface of our thoughts regularly as they help define who we are, what we value and what is truly most important to our happiness. It’s so easy to fill our lives with superfluous inconsequential things and even relationships – because we tend to take the path of least resistance. It’s human nature. Pushing through challenges and stepping out of complacent commitments isn’t easy because we have been programmed to do the right thing. Stay. Even if it doesn’t feed our souls. Is it truly what our hearts want, need, desire, value?

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Wants: To wish for, desire for something.

Needs: A condition or situation in which something must be supplied in order for a certain condition to be maintained or a desired state to be achieved.

Desire: to wish for, long, crave.

Value: a person’s principles or standards of behavior; one’s judgment of what is important in life. The regard that something is held to deserve; the importance, worth, or usefulness of something.

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Being on the other side of marriage at this juncture, this chapter on life’s gameboard has really made me aware of my clarity. I am very clear on what I want, need, desire, value. The reason is, I’ve done my homework, made it my mission to look within, see what works, what doesn’t, recognize my patterns, see the ones that need to shift so the things I desire materialize. We all have them- habits, patterns, reactive behaviors that keep us from experiencing our ideal lives. And until we do this, be optimistically specific, get clear and clean out the rubbish, guess what? The wheel continues to spin and it’s repeat, repeat, reload, repeat. Same ol’ shit different week, month, year, decade. Trust me, this is what I work with clients on, from relationships to health, yes health, because people don’t change their bad habits, to careers. We’re human remember. Change, though the most constant universal denominator, is the most difficult. It’s too damn scary.  It amazes the hell out of me, it truly does, what people are willing to put up with to keep the safe, status quo.

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Why things don’t work in our lives is clarity. Seriously! How clear are we exactly – are our life relationships awesome, great, good, mediocre, so-so, not-so-good, bad-news? Are we crystal clear right down to the finite detail of what we want, need, desire, value in our lives? (Remember “relationships” are inclusive of above subjects because health as an example is a relationship with ourselves, careers are how we express our mental relationships.) I’ll give you an example. Gawd I can offer hundreds however….In my twenties I had a very long laundry list written down of the kind of man I desired to be my mirror. I did pretty well on most levels however I wasn’t specific enough in others. Specifics are critical. I married a very successful man, smart, athletic, good looking (great sperm donor!) obviously hard working, talented, incredibly social and extroverted. All great. However where I didn’t dial it was in love languages, how we interacted and what was/is most important for my personal emotional quotients. My fault or responsibility, not his. He can’t give what he doesn’t have to give. Simple. So we parted ways after eighteen years.

Next go round I was more specific but alas not enough. I dialed the love language perfectly, we were so on the same page, we were attached at the hip. That part of our twelve year relationship was amazingly happy.  However, I missed the mood swing category, the heavy suppressed anger department, unwillingness to forgive and let-go and the subsequent health issues that ensued and the ultimately early death. (Through another lens I knew psychically it would be a short relationship as I’d seen him die when we were dating.)

Current timeframe. What have I learned from great experience? What do I want to change? Add, subtract, shift? *Obviously at the top is “value.” I desire a mirror to reflect “value” back. Self value-self care, value of our emotions/relationship with each other first, value of love languages (1. Time, 2. Intimacy/touch, 3. Words of affirmation, 4. Acts of service, 5. Gifts) (your list can be in whatever works for your heart). Value my standard of ethics, life principles. *Healthy! Active, full of energy. Willing to do the work to be! *Athletic and slim. *Is totally fun, and fun-loving. *Communication on every difficult issue and every emotional experience. *Willingness to change and improve ~Willingness to look within at behaviors, bad habits and change them to be foremost a better human being and better partner. *Willingness to forgive and forget. *Be fully engaged in each other avoiding complacency. *Be respectful, honest, kind and clear. *Desire to learn, expand, literally explore to death and beyond. *Sexually -to be on the same morality page, valuing deeper intimacy and having it be about the unity of “each other.” (Sorry guys it’s not all about you!! If so, other men are available for those encounters and then sadly we’d go extinct -ha! Nothing against my fabulous gay friends. You get it.) And not thinking every woman is a sexual target- makes for too many emotional energies in the bedroom detracting from intimacy as well as displaying incredible behavioral shallowness. *Classy and a gentleman in all areas, treats me as a lady. *Smart, intelligent, can speak to larger issues. *Handy!! *Funny, dry wit and sense of humor. *A king, not a jack or knave. A manly man, my Equal.  *Willing to challenge, support and push me to be my best even if it’s uncomfortable. *Can handle adversity gracefully within and outside the relationship. *Emotionally strong deep, calm. *Asks deeper questions of himself, each other and the world at large! (This is huge for me as that is what drives me- I need that mirror.) etc etc etc etc.

See, by being very specific, very clear, and trust me the list is much longer, I am manifesting the best, most incredible experience. It’s baffling that most and I mean Most!! do not have a clear idea of what they want, need, desire, value. I hear all the time, “I just want to be happy.” So what does happiness mean? How does that look to you, how does it feel, taste, touch, smell? Get down and dirty and be specific. Otherwise you’re going to get the same ol’ repeat, repeat, reload, repeat.

Then hold that energy in your heart with love and clarity. What doesn’t work will fall away. The connections and relationships that vibrate at that level of open confidence will move into your frequencies and energy fields. But it’s up to each of us to decipher what is valuable to and for us. That’s not the other person’s job, or the people you work with or your body’s. It’s yours to do. So start that list in every area of your life and see what magically appears.

1. Relationships: it’s always about us, not the partner. If we are clear about our wants, needs, desires, values, the partner either steps up or away. It’s that simple.

2. Career: Focus on what we love not what we don’t like. Learn everything about what we love and have passion doing and it will materialize. Belief in ourselves is key.

3. Health: Focus on what we desire to be. Do everything positive to create that awesome health from changing self deprecating habits to eating foods that nourish your body to hiring a trainer.

Here’s to a fab list of essentials.

 

Cosmic sunshine to you. ☀️

 

Candia Sanders is an International Medical Intuitive, High Frequency Healer, Author and Speaker -an Eternal Optimist- who has helped countless thousands of people ease their medical issues, navigate important relationships and find their soul’s purpose and life direction. Candia is also the author of the transcendent new book, “Soul Rays: Discover the Vibratory Frequency of Your Soul“.

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“No More Road Kill! A Quick Preventative Energy/Sound Visualization”

I had a fabulous weekend working with great women and two awesome men up on the Olympic peninsula: all day readings, three hour evening workshop, a Sunday speaking engagement. The drive along Hood’s Canal was stellar and all the more Friday night with a full moon rising over the inland sea. As I was driving home I’d literally just been saying to myself with a big smile, “I’m loving my life again!!” (-I’m finally back!!!-) when to my utter horror, about three car lengths ahead of me I saw something being thrown across the windy mountain road.

I slowed down immediately. As I neared, I realized it was a new born spring fawn that was literally catapulted across two lanes. The driver never slowed. By the time I neared, the body was on my side of the road, the body still moving from the collision. I immediately went from joy to big salty tears. It was a Whyyyyy? Soooo, I took a deep breath, said, “Okay Universe timing is everything” and I went to work. I feel that’s why I was there. I instantly went energetically to the baby and helped release her from her pain-wracked body so she didn’t have to continue in the vortex. Then I switched my attention to mama who I felt was just beyond in the trees, and wrapped her heart with as much love and empathy possible. I knew she was grieving.

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Those who read my blogs more than likely believe animals have emotions and feelings about their young and each other. However, I know there are many on this planet who aren’t of this sentiment and look on them as mere animals far beneath humans. This to me is very sad. Mammals especially are filled with immeasurable love for their offspring and partners. Global stories abound about the depth, courage and caring of multiple species. Seeing this take place was unsettling and sad.

I then went to a “place of peace” within my heart to recognize everything is perfect the way it is, even when appearances speak otherwise. There is a larger context we don’t always see. My belief is if we deal with each situation that comes our way with as much grace and love as possible, even when it’s not easy, especially when it’s not easy!!! we have the ability to erase old karma and reshape the future, reconfigure our future as a species, our future as a planet. It is truly our best remedy.

This is truly the way clear for humanity. Sending positive loving grace to all situations good and difficult, awesome and hurtful, incredible and painful. Watching this baby die was painful and sad and yucky. However I felt better knowing I helped change the energy and frequency around it by letting the baby know she didn’t die alone, by sending love to the mother.

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I drive on mountain roads all the time. Animals are part of the journey.  My secret to keeping them away from my car is I truly wrap my car in energy that spins out and repels the animals. There are devices you can buy that put out a sound wave to keep animals at bay, however I just do it with energy intention, additionally putting light around all my tires and engine to perform their jobs well. I send out energetic sound waves to alert animals of all kinds of my presence, to warn them of my steel machine. If you make this a practice, it works.

1. Visualize your vehicle surrounded in brightly charged energy.

2. Take your hands while at the steering wheel and push them out into the air focusing on the energy-sound you are projecting, pushing the energy out to create a barrier. See this boundary of light and sound in your mind to be as real as your car.

3. See and feel the animals hearing this energy wave around your car or truck.

4. Trust, know and believe all creatures large and small are safe and happy.

5. Bless every dead animal and/or road-kill you see with love to shift the energy of fear and pain.❤️

 

And I do this because I drive regularly at 80. No problems ever.

 

Cosmic sunshine to you!

 

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“Hiatus: Taking “Time Out” to Create More “Real” Time”

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I’ve been off-grid these past several months, and now literally hanging at my off-grid  solar generated cabin. I detoxed from social media and the internet in general. It’s been refreshingly fabulous. I would recommend it to everyone! We all need to step out of this generated cyberspace universe and re-emerge in the physical real world, breathe and reconnect. Sit under trees, lie on rocks, get sunshine on our bodies especially in the early morning. Early morning sunlight literally resets the healthy body button. Even in the cities, get on rooftops and connect with the Sky. Bring along a crystal to create the earth-grid to ground the energies.

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The best gift from taking “time-out” is “real” time spreads out and expands. I’ll explain further.  I just had a three day workshop here at my cabin called “High Octane Zen.” The common voiced frustration throughout the weekend was lack of “time,” to do the things desired.  Not enough “time,” not  jobs or relationships but the demands that zap our personal space and “time,” was numero uno in frustration and angst. Restless anxiety and stress were the results. How do we generate a different time table was a hot topic.

I’ve talked about where the earth is in the solar elliptical and the precession of the equinoxes in the cosmic backdrop as influencing our time grids. It’s true. Time has sped up however even in this construct we can through intention and perception push time out to allow more conscious expansion, more fun, more joy. The end result is happier healthier us!

Okay tricks and tools.

1. Like I said: nature is a great start. Takes us out of the chaos. Remember to breathe.

2. Detox from social media. Rearrange your calendars to reflect more personal space.

3. Here’s the visual.  With your hands together, in front of you, elbows bent, push your hands apart as if clearing clutter from a table. With clear intention, think of this clearing and spreading-out as “making space,” moving “time out,” to literally step into with your mind, as a new location on the dimensional grids. You are literally creating a new place in time. Stepping into this – literally in your mind- allows you to broaden the day, expand your senses as you now work from “this” space. Essentially you’re stopping the clock by being off-grid and out of the perceived time zone. Be organized and ready to get your lists accomplished. When you’re done, step out of your visualized time grid, see it real. Create a decorated door into your off-grid zone with a handle to utilize again. If your perceptions and intentions are in alignment, you’ll discover you’ve gotten more done in less time thus freeing you to do more in your play time.

4. Make the effort. Be the mindful commander of your own ship charting your own best path and not letting time control you.

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To more fun free time to be our best creative whole selves!

Trust me, it feels rejuvenating.

Cosmic sunshine to you.

 

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“X Marks the Spot”

Remember the old term X Marks the Spot? It was about finding the “treasure,” that magical, elusive buried treasure the adventurers and pirates and gamblers were always seeking.  I believe we are still on that fast track of pursuing wealth and riches, that slick home-run of making money, the get rich quick scheme. Like finding someone else’s buried treasure, where X marked the spot on the leathered map – which was more than likely stolen from someone else, we too seek and pursue the way of luxury maybe even more so because the adverts are so in our faces to consume and keep up with those mysterious Jones’. But what if that elusive treasure is within us all along?

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I know luxury and beauty are wonderful gifts this world can deliver. Seeking them externally for personal satisfaction and emotional comfort are great pursuits each of can achieve if we believe we deserve them. However I also believe we need to see the everyday luxury and beauty around us foremost to continue to expand our bounty.  When combined, the internal and external, there’s nothing that is outside our reach. It’s too easy to ignore what Is, and the good we do have. We focus on the negatives and complain instead. Thus the visualization game where magical X marks the spot can guide our path, the map to our internal and possibly eternal riches and wealth. Because let’s face it, the gold and gems reside within us.

Imagine placing a big fat X over our hearts then twist it slightly so the | and the – are lined up with our bodies, in other words it becomes more like a Celtic cross, aligning our energies. Instead of a block as in most descriptions of an X or a cross it’s a point of intersection, a portal into the greater You, Me, Us. Now add a few more lines to it,  and it becomes a Star * a gateway of understanding our connectivity with the greater cosmic order of the universe. We are in fact, Stars dancing in the galaxies. We are the answer, we are the X that marks the treasure, because we are the gems.

Of course we totally get in our own way big time. We are overloaded with such a deep myriad and plethora of debilitating beliefs and emotions we can’t see our own potentially. Crazy right? But oh so true, however with dedication, determination, discipline, and the belief we are our own access points, our own immeasurable rich, wealthy, beautiful, expansive, treasure troves of abilities and talents and goodness and love.  We can change the world one day, one person at a time.

1. Mark the X on your heart.

2. Expand it to a T.

3. Visualize it as a Star.

4. See the center point within the fulcrum as a doorway, a hidden portal into the More of life, the cosmic entry point.

5. Visualize yourself walking through.

6. What do you see, experience, hear, discover? Now bring it back with you to play with in your every day waking state. Share the love essentially.

That’s the X of your mind body soul granting you access to greater riches, treasures and beauty of You!

Now that’s true Bounty!

 

 

Cosmic sunshine to you.

 

*Please join my treasure seeking tribe. It’s very fun and exceptionally rewarding!

 

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‘It’s Always About Love: 7 Insights to Enhance Any Relationship”

I know, I know, you are never supposed to use the words “always” or “never,” however sometimes they are both completely appropriate and accurate. I recently did a radio show where listeners called in with their questions.  The hostess asked the listeners to come up with very deep, insightful questions as the topic had been on “multiple realms.” Ninetynine percent called in with questions about their relationships, their significant other, and/or if someone wonderful was coming into their life. Typical. The reason is, we all love love. Going “deep,” finding our soul’s purpose, isn’t at the top of the priority list. Once love is dialed, well then – maybe.

 

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I know many single people who would give anything to have someone wonderful in their lives, from individuals in their 20s to people in their 80s. “Love still reigns triumphant.” Learning about today’s dating world is definitely not for the faint of heart either. Trust me on that coming out of marriage. It’s a crazy frenzy. So even getting “Out there” to connect with like-minded people to maybe, possibly contemplate a relationship feels scary. But after knowing what love offers, it is so worth the effort. Again, who doesn’t love being in love? The question is why do we always – there’s that word again – struggle with and in relationships and have to begin – again.

“when love becomes a reason 

we fly with kings tonight

and come down

with an empire of our own.”

(Empire of Our Own, RAIGN)

Well for starters, there is the difference between men and women, how we think, act and more importantly,  believe.  Even as I write this though, we can’t lump all women under one umbrella, nor men under one category. We are the same and yet not. But even so, we do think radically different on how we see and do relationships with each other. Men would like women to be more like men, and women would like men to be more like women. (Thus the reason why we love gay men- they think like us!)  It’s a great concept – a little more testosterone here, a lot more estrogen there, and our thinking would become more homogenized, similar and shared. Perhaps there would be fewer wars, richer intimacy, better communication, more action, more receptivity, more relationships, fewer marriages. Hmmmm. It’s quite the thought.

However, I’m a believer we were created as men and women for wonderful reasons, our strong differences as powerful mirrors for each other.  The male/female, yin/yang generates mystery and magic that only our differences can magnify and enhance, our masculine and feminine minds creating better working solutions to common challenges and larger issues. Herein lies magnificent synergistic balance and harmony between the “principles” because we see the world through uniquely colored lenses. It also ignites the chemistry between individuals. (This is also true within the various sexual worlds as no matter what, there still reigns the male female dynamic. It just “Is.”) We are also here to dive into the energies of each dynamic at a human level, to better comprehend these larger universal polar, give/take principles as they are everywhere throughout the cosmos.

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Would I truly want my partner to be more feminine? Cry more, dissect every emotional hurdle to finite detail, take an hour getting ready, watch romantic comedies? Well, watching romantic comedies would be great….but the rest? Probably not.  I love the masculine principle, the strength, the charm, the charisma of what it means to be male, to create, construct, build, negotiate, seduce. I love it.

And on the flip, would a strong male really want his feminine counterpart to never dress up, curse insatiably, constantly troll for the next possible dessert (there sure would be a lot of people in the bedroom) talk guy-buddy-raunch…well maybe? See, therein could be difference. Maybe that Is really what men want? (Wink wink) Just adding levity. I do know strong loving masculine, well-dressed men that love women being all female, gorgeous mysterious creatures whose timeless alchemy enhance their lives.

The world is large. Love is bigger.

Bigger truths on why relationships are challenged are multi-layered:

1. At an earthly level, “pure loving communication”especially since we are in different countries, different camps of thought, is a giant hurdle. Communication and listening are the two most vitally important links to greater long-term loving, intimate and sustaining relationships. Most break down at this level. The reason is fear. Fear of reprisal, rejection, of learning answers they don’t want to hear, vs listening to gain wisdom and understanding and deeper knowing.

2. To find someone of equal or greater value to match us, we have to step up our game. We have to be more of who we are. Why? Because then we like us better. And then and only then will a greater connection happen.

3. Empathy and understanding on both sides of the playing field go a long way. Life has many roads. Giving the other a hand to hold instead of a cold shoulder goes the long distance.

4.  Give the other the freedom to be themselves. And if that mirror doesn’t reflect you, it’s okay to find the one who does.

5. Complacency- the biggest death trap. People as soon as they’re single, lose the weight they didn’t care about, get involved, ask questions, stay interested in someone new. Where were these attributes in the relationship that just dissolved?

6. Action and receptivity. Give and take. In time these can become skewed. One gives more, one receives more. It’s learning balance on both sides of the coin and respect for the other of giving and receiving. Make it a daily mantra.

7. We are here to learn both sides of the universal coin – masculine and feminine. We choose both sexes throughout time to learn the dynamics of the other frequency. It’s in this knowing, we have the greatest opportunities for deeper understanding and cosmic unity, knowing we too have literally walked a mile in each other’s shoes. So try them -once again- on and see if a wonderful change ensues.

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So whether you’re in a long-term or new relationship, choose today as the perfect day to step it up, clearly communicate and make it your best connection, relationship yet. It’s up to each of us to make it so. And if it doesn’t curl your toes, have the courage, strength and most importantly, honesty to move forward towards new blue skies. It’s only fair to both involved.

If you’re single and interested in a loving relationship, make that effort, first with yourself, then get out in the world. It’s the only way it’ll happen.

 

Here’s to relationships of every size, shape, and color. Here’s to Love in all it’s guises.

 

Cosmic sunshine to you.

 

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“Breathe the Sun into Your Soul’

Days run by so quickly. Or is it just me?  I have felt our 24 hours shrink to 15 and now… I feel we are down to about 12 hours in a day. I realize it’s all illusion however, it’s how I feel. We are so barraged with information on an hourly basis from news,  emails, texts, phone calls, and every other kind of social media outlet, it can be inundating. Not enough hours to do it all. My natural tendency is just to procrastinate, walk away,  and then move helter-skelter through it. I’ve been imagining a way to organize it in a sane, positive, constructive manner, at the same time keeping a happy attitude and expanding my creative process.

Yesterday, I had a reading with a wonderful woman who is living in Italy. The visual she provided to me was the perfect antidote, the remedy to the situation.

Sit in the sun….

and breathe the sun into your soul…☀

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The ancients revered the sun as a God for multiple reasons; it provides life for the planet, creates warmth and energy and fire. This fire we can extend into our beings, into our souls, to grab the potentiality of what is around us. The heat is also soothing, happy, and relaxing, paradoxically invigorating our attitudes. By taking regular moments to sit, breathe in the warmth, down to the cellular-soul level, it can shift our perception of any event, or deadline or demand. It’s the recharge we are clamoring for.

Please consider joining me as I sit in the warm spring sunshine. Let’s grab our highest potentiality, invigorating our souls with laughter, happiness and connection. We too can blossom, in the heat, away from the cyberspace onslaught.

 

Cosmic sunshine to you.

 

Candia Sanders is an International Medical Intuitive, Healer, Author and Speaker -an Eternal Optimist- who has helped countless thousands of people ease their medical issues, navigate important relationships and find their soul’s purpose and life direction. Candia is also the author of the transcendent new book, “Soul Rays: Discover the Vibratory Frequency of Your Soul“.

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“Death is Such a Misnomer~Nothing Ever Dies: Hilarious Messages Continue”

It’s been over a year since my husband passed and six months since my dad exited his skinny body. I’m continually asked if I’m still in communication with either one? Truth is, Yes. Regularly. Dale with his perverbial comedic attitude is up to his usual tricks. Saturday night was cold. I drove into Bend with my heater set at 80. Dale’s side was always set at 65 when he was here physically. Now, both sides are at 80. Hey! It’s my car and I can be happy, right?  I was listening to my music on my iphone, keeping warm, rocking out.

I joined  some friends for some live music and dance. We were there for a couple of hours, meeting people, sharing stories, dancing. Great night. End of the evening, I jumped in the car, pushed the ignition. The “radio” was on, with a different preset, a station I haven’t  listened to for a while, and both heaters were turned down low. The passenger side was set at 63, mine was 71.  Trust me, I never have mine set at 71 ~ ever~ unless it’s the summertime. And when your car and iphone are synced, the music will automatically come back on, not go to radio.  I believe in magic obviously. However I don’t believe car dials can just change randomly without some help. This has been the continual go-to connection, electronics, because I feel they are  the most easily accessed conduit between the worlds. My son and I are still talking about that otherworldly app.

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Okay funny! Right now as I’m writing this, the previous sentence was repeated, word for word, below. Getting messages Now as I write! Electronics again.

Easily accessed conduit between the world. My son and I are still talking about that otherworldly app.

This is how easy it is to communicate when we pay attention to the signals given regularly. They’re obviously different than picking up the phone or hugging, however they’re just as real.  I never feel alone. My dad too checks in as he and I were so amazingly close my entire life. Honestly I spend 98% of my time alone yet never feel that to be my reality.

I have another story to share, however, it’s not mine. It’s a Dale story though.  Last August, a family friend came to visit from Canada. Our families have known one another since I was a teenager.   We had made an agreement years before that if we were ever single at the same time we would let each other know. The timing lined up. He came to share my son’s and dad’s birthday celebration (my parents were thrilled) at my cabin. Mr. Canada decided that he could swim across the lake with the kids as he was feeling all spry and spunky. I don’t think that he factored in cold water, wind, and the distance. As he was swimming he became incredibly tired and winded. At one point he even thought he wasn’t going to make it – seriously. At the most critical juncture, Mr. Canada while struggling, had an inspiration, this tap on his shoulder if you will, to stop right there in the far reaches of the lake and put his feet down. You have to understand he’s out in the middle of the lake he’d never swam in before. He discovered a very small piece of sand maybe 6 inches wide. After that the sand dropped away into deeper depths. His feet and toes gladly rested while his breath returned, regaining a sense  of equilibrium before he headed back towards the cabin. He admitted he felt it was Dale who saved his life. The decision at that moment to find ground was an overriding emotion triggered from a source who knew the lake. Dale helped him from where he was/is in the universe. Pretty damn special ~ because as he did, he was helping me, the family, as Mr Canada is in our lives now. It was only one week later dad jumped this plane.

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I love the magic! I love the Love!

Isn’t it grand the possibilities, the truth of what’s available, if we listen with our hearts?

PS as I’ve typed in a title several times, it’s erased, literally erased and I have had to start all over. Again. And no, it’s not some virus as I bought a new device. It’s hilarious! Thx Dale. Maybe there’s some help from dad too.

 

Addendum: I’ve been looking for trip photos from 2012 when Dale and I took a month camping in the back of our truck, before camper days. The last hurrah was Banff. I introduced Dale to Mr Canada. I took pictures to mark the event. I’d scanned my phone and my iPad for photos from that part of the adventure; nothing. Two days ago I was reminding Mr. Canada of these pictures and mentioned I thought they were stored on my dismantled computer. Last night, out of No Where, there they were, all seven photos – on my phone like they’d been there all along ~ randomly~ as there are no other photos from 2012 Canada and Banff. So you tell me?!

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Every time I mention or say something, find something, that person or connection shows up almost immediately. Now not all of this is Dale, he’s about the things and events related to him. The rest is the synchronicity of the universe. Magic baby! Magic!

 

Cosmic sunshine to you.

 

Our loved ones are always with us. Never feel communication isn’t possible, because it is.

 

Candia Sanders is an International Medical Intuitive, Healer, Author and Speaker -an Eternal Optimist- who has helped countless thousands of people ease their medical issues, navigate important relationships and find their soul’s purpose and life direction. Candia is also the author of the transcendent new book, “Soul Rays: Discover the Vibratory Frequency of Your Soul“.

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