“What’ll It Be? Door Number one? Door Number Two? Door Number Three?”

Probabilities: the extent to which something is probable; the likelihood of something happening or being the case. The most probable event.”

Every single second a probable doorway opens. A possible reality. There are always a myriad of probabilities available to each of us. The key is what we focus on. Of course our favorite go-to-location is fear. The fear we are going to lose our job, are in trouble about something, have done something wrong, the constant what-if this or that, play out in our thoughts tumbling out of control like boulders down a cliff. Well…if you think and focus on negative scenarios, get into that spin, it will.

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Case in point. Speaking with a client about his upcoming early review; instant fear of all that could be wrong became the upmost negative spin in his mind. He forgot in the mind-mixer the incredible results he’s garnered in his team’s arena.

“Which one do you want to happen? Where do you want to be? You can choose to be fired: one probability. You can choose to be recognized for your achievements: probability two. You could be offered a higher position and salary: prob 3. All options are available.”

Remembered realizations, a calming of the senses, breath easier. Clarity available as focus on good things appeared. Multiple probabilities opened up before him.

We all know what we want but then second guess ourselves and/or evaluate our own successes and/or failures thus determining the outcomes based on our projections and thoughts. We choose which doorway, which probability factor grabs us most.

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How does that account for accidents? Other’s diseases? Like my husband’s cancer. I didn’t choose that probability however I stepped in it to support his time while there, strengthening my nursing/healing/companion skills. A balancing factor. An energy exchange. It’s what we do. Yes there are ramifications and fallouts from our choices and probability locations impacting those around us, yet at the same time we have the ability to have huge gains and successes when we embrace that path as well- example again; the caregiver, among many such options. Even something as single minded as recognizing peace and joy in life’s simplicities is a probability choice.

If we were to recognize and truly appreciate – to know there are multiple options to choose, a smorgasbord of various realties, in my humble view,  we have an even greater chance, probability – of choosing our best.

Because in the end that’s all we’ve got: to continue to evolve, grow and be our best version of ourselves, living our most sparkling radiant probability.

Cosmic sunshine to you☀️

 

 

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“To Be in This World”

You know the old saying “to be in this world but not of this world,” is often misquoted as a bible verse however it’s not ironically. It is applicable though to our daily experiences, the continuing dramas we become immersed in taking over all perspectives and viewpoints. When we become so entangled in the story we forget the larger picture, “to be not of this world.” We are definitely then “in this world” rather than distancing ourselves from the illusions we assume are our forever reality.

My go-to place is literally the top of a mountain, in my mind and physically. It keeps me balanced and honestly more intuitive. I realized over the last month of too much food and fantastic wine, activities and family fun, I had become immersed in the day to day story, rather like an ant’s perspective of life versus an eagle’s, not “going to my meditative-mind-mountain.” All the gluttony of chocolate and chips, wine and wine, made me feel dense and heavy. Definitely not cosmic and intuned. I was “in this world” literally.

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I know uneqivically this is what happens to all of us. Between lower vibrational foods, alcohol and sorry yes even cannabis, and every other freaking drug, these indulgences lower our abilities to be more in touch with the amazing world and universe we reside in, not too mention distancing ourselves from emotional self reflection and deftness in staying out of the drama, choosing to be a sideline character rather than the star. (And yes, if you’re in pain or learning through disease then cannabis is a marvelous choice. I am an advocate for this alternative healing modality. Totally different choices.)

Most don’t truly understand the fuel we put into our bodies can make us purr like a Lamborghini or sputter and choke like a Pinto. Foods vibrate. We vibrate. The key is finding what is best for our personal vibrations and doesn’t lower or impinge them. We literally have the ability to live twice as long if we made different choices, our bodies are hardwired that way, however we are buried in limiting contrary beliefs.

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Please think consciously. Everyday. To change the world we have to be the change. My repeating mantra. “Be in this world but not of it.” Climb that mountain and find a better view, a clearer perspective. Sit by water. See the symbolism in everything.

To a fabulous 2019.

 

Cosmic sunshine to you.

 

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“A 2019 Monthly Guide to Align to Your Highest Vibration”

Utilizing the cosmic forces to align to our highest principles here’s a intuitive glance at 2019 to help frame and guide the year for the best outcome. 💕

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January: The month of Capricorn and Aquarius. Utilize their components and strengths to set goals and create opportunities. Capricorn’s business acumen, one step at a time attitude combined with Aquarius’s forward-creative-thinking can be brought into your personal fold to set the tone for the year: work/job/career focus. Add in peppermint tea and oils for brain clarity and decongestant from winter storms. Discover some new visualizations to expand consciousness, intuition, vibrancy. Make sure vitamin C is part of your journey.

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February: Aquarius’s out-of-the-box view from deep space married to Pisces’s contemplative emotional vibe can spotlight personal relationships in all arenas to engage more interaction. Aquarius’s ability to disengage from negativity, change and shift plus Pisces’ emotional deep dive creates a balanced head and heart combo love dance. Think feel romance: essentially falling-in-love with life. Add in ylang ylang and gardenia candles and oils as love scents. Sandalwood body oil for romantic occasions. Drink jasmine green tea for the good phyto-vibes it provides. Join our trampoline group, get healthy: we jump in the evenings together from California to Washington to music or a series. It’s a fun interactive way to exercise in your own home yet stay connected. Let me know if you’re interested in joining our tramp team.

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March: Pieces and Aires, a very interesting combo, the end of the cycle connecting to the beginning. The comforting and helpful Pisces’ emotional strengths mingled with Aires strong take charge “I can do anything” attitude creates a probing, emotionally powerful opportunity to look at the month through deep intelligence and wisdom. Remember to stay away from the drama and heat. The month will serve you better. Use rosemary oil for cognitive recharge in the bath, shower or body oil. Drink rosemary tea. Use pine or fir oils for winter body aches and rub on muscles in combo with peppermint oils. Write daily gratitude/appreciation lists to finish your day.

April: Positively applying some of last month’s Pisces patience to this strong Aires month has the ability to hit the target rather than jumping the gun too quickly on any project. Add Taurus’s security-sense into the mix and this month has the potential to secure the deal that’s been in the ethers; a work project, buying a house, a move to a new job, a marriage proposal. Strength+Patience=Rewards. Try lavender oil for patience, lavender candles to scent the air, chamomile tea for calming and frankincense for amplification of health as it stimulates the limbic part of the brain to overcome stress. Consider exploring new local locations from museums to galleries like a tourist.

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May: If that new deal and/or change has been put on the schedule then May’s vibe is to trust this change has been incorporated into your matrix by your higher self. And if the deal is just change in general, go with the flow. Gemini’s ability to dart and flex provides perfect harmony to happily adjust to this beautiful new direction. Taurus’s energy loves the beauty of it all. Buy some flowers, enjoy spring hikes. Soak up the magic of the season. Try some lemon oil for stimulation and immune support, lemon in your morning water for cleansing and ph balance. Diffuse some mandarin or orange oil for added happiness stimulation. Try 10 morning jumping jacks that are backwards or opposite to reset your frequencies.

June: Taurus’s love of beauty floats into June to light the month with sunshine and color. Gemini’s charm of finding balance is your clue to seek balance in your own life especially if there are emotional strings or ropes pulling you too far in any direction, also a side diversion of Gemini. Add in Cancer’s deep love of family and emotional connections which strengthen foundations keeping the pendulum balance in check. Think: Beautiful Balance in Family/Friends/Relationships. Try fresh grated ginger as your morning tea and/or in foods for great digestion and high energy. Ginger is also a sexual stimulate so perfect for baby making energy. June is a great month for fresh basil in salads and or margaritas. Walk daily setting goals to extend the mileage weekly. Goal: become stronger.

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High Octane Zen Retreat Weekend: Fantabulous Recharge Your Batteries and Intuition. Cascade Mountains, Washington. Contact me for deats.

July: Cancer’s typical response of ‘staying in it’s shell’ is your reminder to look in the mirror to see if you’re taking that approach to events and circumstances. Draw to yourself Leo’s on-stage leader-self, combining with Cancer’s deep caring depth and you’ll be able to crack that shell and reveal more of who you are. Be all you came here to be. Time to add fennel into your fresh salads, (good Cancer energy.) Use rose oil for harmony and well-being. Try a new summer sport: canoeing, dragon boating, paddle boarding, backpacking for the adventure. 

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Come join me for my nature spirit class on Mt St Helens.

August: Proud, love-life Leo combines being-in-the-moment energy with left-over Cancerian introspection, to open the door into the pragmatic realism of Virgo. This is your reminder card to live in the now, not get lost in too many to-do’s and enjoy the beauty of summer. Practicality can step in at the end of the month as you transition into September. Try grapefruit essential oil for youthfulness and vigor, infuse the air with spikenard oil for skin regeneration after hot August days. Use argon oil on your face for beauty and calmness. Explore healthy summer recipes for high energy and ease.

September: Your practicality proves to be the best bonus of September as you navigate the multiple things coming your direction from every angle. Virgo’s ability to organize really saves the day. It puts you ahead of the game if you pay attention to details. By the end of the month, Libra’s ability to balance out the left over threads and pieces puts the shining glory on the month. Practicality+Organization+Details=Balance. Burn some sage for cleaning and clearing out the clutter. Drink hot lemon and honey. It’s the perfect time for an essential oil massage. Autumn adventures are happy rewards for the previous eight months of focus and hard work: make them entertaining, fun and insightful. Plan as many as you’re able from a day’s outing to a three day getaway to a full-fledged vacay.

October: This month could prove to have small to larger areas of conflict. Be aware. Libra’s tendency is to avoid conflict as much as possible, so utilize Librian energy to stay out of the fray and drama. Scorpio’s passion heats up the latter part of the month fueling creative fires for learning new things from calligraphy to Chinese, Mexican cooking to astrology. Combine cinnamon and honey in hot water as an immune stimulant. Light up the fire or candles scented with clove, cinnamon and apples. Time to create soups loaded with fresh herbs. Remember our trampoline network? Join us for the health benefits combined with new friendships.

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November: Scorpio’s deeply held emotions spark desires within you to rekindle old talents, fire new friendships or romances. Trust what shows up on your doorstep in the form of creative juices or romantic ideas are there to ignite rich reconnections with your soul’s passions. This is exciting. Fall is the ideal time to pursue these hidden gems. Sagittarius risk-taking abilities help you leap when your natural tendency is to stay put. Jump! It’s time to fly. Infuse the air with clary sage for calming and dream stimulation. Drink a variation of green teas for immune support. Eat fresh fall veggies to keep your health strong and radiant. Join a yoga studio, a gym or download an exercise series like Beach Body or P90 to keep your remaining summer health vital.

December: Expanding your self confidence is December’s theme, driven by Sagittarius’s innate talent and strong commitment to do things themselves. This serves your need to expand your natural abilities. This can be in the form of saying “yes” when needed and “no” when it’s essential. You’ll end the month with Capricorn’s strong sense of responsibility and going above and beyond. This makes your heart feel glad you’ve gone the extra mile for those in need of your strengths and laughter. Burn a combo-platter of orange, cinnamon and lemon for joy and fir and cedar to connect with the natural world. Avoid sugar. Stay grounded. Give and accept Love. It’s the best remedy in the cosmos. End the year in great appreciation for the incredible adventure it’s been.

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Love and Light. May your inner light continue to grow and expand to its fullest potential.

Cosmic light to all!

Candia

 

 

 

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“Our Cosmic Contracts”

Let’s go “there.” “There” being the location we were before being born in these particular bodies. What do you think “there” is? Where is “there?” What does it look like, feel like? What about the last steps before sliding down the Cosmic Ladder into our human bodies? What are the details, life descriptions and contracts we commit to before we enter into our 3D physicality?

(I like going “there” in my expanded-mind looking for clues, details, and information. Everyone has the right to think and believe their own story. At the same time I’ll share my perceptions and beliefs. You can try them on and see how they feel.)

I’m very clear on this. I believe strongly we arrive from “there” (which is actually “herehiding in plain sight as all space and time overlap and are in one cosmic location) with a set of precise blueprints, plans for the human road ahead. Each of us fit into group soul plans filtering down to our individual soul design. I believe we sign the dotted line, our Cosmic Contract with ourselves, to explore, embrace, experience, share, grow and learn to expand our soul matrix. These contracts include contracts with individual souls we agree to share the road from our parents, siblings, friends, lovers and partners and subsequent children. These contracts with soul groups can run in increments of a hundred, two hundred, five hundred to a thousand year intervals on the reincarnation cycles.

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I mean think about. Haven’t there been moments in your life when exactly the right person or job or move shows at the exact perfect time, essentially out of nowhere? These are contracts. Connections you agreed to before you arrived on planet playground. And honestly some of these agreed to performances I’m sure you’d rather not have had to do, follow through on, as they’re not that much fun, however you are so much wiser, stronger because of these contracts.

Of course we can go completely off track, shy away from our original draft and contract, dive into distractions, phobias and addictions from drugs to sex. We can essentially do whatever we choose however sooner or later that blueprint, those major contracts, will be visible, show up glaringly to pull us back on track and out of the sea of self absortion. It’s when our intuition kicks in and hits us right between the eyes – in our third eye, our seat of vision, and says, “Wake the hell up, pay attention, there’s a major curve ahead, a massive waterfall, a bad experience.” Or the opposite, “This is it. This is a signed, sealed and agreed life contract.” What’s exciting knowing this, is it gives us the foreknowledge to sleuth life out, pay attention to the gajillion clues we are given daily.  And trust me everything that happens if observed with a detached view offers symbolic imagery to stay within our personally designed blueprints. Honor our contracts. Everything from politics to careers to health to relationships, everything is here For us, not against us. Everything is symbolic. Every religious figure throughout time has shared this belief. We just have extrapolated it differently.

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Contracts are also meant to dissolve after the deal is done, finished, complete, thus divorce, moves, death. Our contract then is to move forward with people, places, and events that are present, available and here for us- subsequently, our next contract. This doesn’t detract or remove our emotional connection and love from our past, instead we are adding to our wealth of experiential opportunities in the now.

These contracts are also about doing what feels the best, listening to our inner voices for ourselves without adhering to someone else’s plan for us. Contracts with ourselves are about following our own Yellow Brick Road, while honoring other’s theirs.

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The indicator if you’re are on track with your cosmic contracts or not is how you feel. Seriously, how do you feel? Are you in resistance or is there a flow? Even if you’re in a difficult contract there is always room for flow. Once within the flow, the ability to maneuver within said agreement becomes so much easier and the reasons the agreement was created in the first place becomes more flexible and fluid. This the reason for the contract. For example, my contract with cancer and death. Did I enjoy the ride? Not especially, however I gained so much from the experience, one of the most valuable learning to let go (essentially be in the flow) and totally in the moment – that 24 hours can represent a lifetime. Major presents. I’m clearer today on what’s essential in my life, what adds value. I know too unequivocally it was a life contract I agreed to.

So, your life contracts? Are you learning, gaining and  expanding from these circumstances? Do you observe rather than get caught in the fray? Are you willing to review and see why this is happening? What you’re learning? Are you in resistance or in the flow? If you’re feeling resistance, perhaps it’s time to go within and listen, watch, hear what your contracts are telling you about where you are right this very minute. It might be time to re-evaluate what needs to be adjusted to make the most out of this current life agreement? Only you know. Trust your feelings, your inner guidance. Your heart always know the truth and steers you daily to your brightly well-lighted path of incredibility.

Just know you signed the dotted line. You agreed the moment you chose to be human.

Cosmic sunshine to you.

 

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“Seven Steps to Creating What You Desire?”

What kind of world would you like? Think anything. What would you really like?

Seriously this is what swirls in my mind a lot. I feel strongly we absolutely unequivocally have the ability to create the world we want, we desire. But we don’t. Why? Because, okay one, we don’t remember how. Two, we don’t believe we can. Three, we are lazy. It’s much easier to blame, shame, be angry, point fingers – just look at the news, we are over the flipping top – to see this truth. Ironically the more that ridiculous behavior is the norm, the longer it sticks around impacting the current reality.

The trick is doing the mind dance. The balance of being 100% in the present moment with our thoughts at the same time focusing with full flourish and aplomb and colorful details what we do want. Not easy in a world where we step back and rehash, regurgitate, and vomit the past or get stuck in the ‘what if’s’ of what might happen. Chronically complaining. By the way, chronic anything, chronic indicative of a negative, is related to the past. Period. Our minds, body, literally the very foundational strata of energy and vibration moving to the cellular level, resonates with past emotional layering, impacting our physical well being, equaling chronic. From chronic migraines, ulcers, digestive issues, pain, heart issues, fiber myalgia, tics, arthritis, blood sugar….oh god! Everything that sticks around longer than a virus, an injury- if it hangs around there are emotions wrapped around those chronic unhappy cells, habits and behaviors. Just truth. Same with our reality. Bad relationships, poor jobs. The negative lingers as we hang onto the past or future rather than dialing in all the positives right now.

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Still not convinced? Then just try it with me. You have to be willing to do it 100% at least part of the time. Half assed is okay, at least it’s a start. And then just imagine as you start to see positive results if the whole entire planet got with the program. Imagine where you’d be? Where we’d be? There wouldn’t be the drama to complain about, bitch, moan and blame. It’d be totally completely on your/our shoulders. Funny what happens when self responsibility comes into the picture.

These are going to appear as ridiculously easy, too simplistic to truly make a difference, change your reality, but wait, you haven’t done them yet. You’re going to realize staying focused is more difficult than imagined. The Tibetan monks will tell you the most challenging thing to do is be mindful. Period.

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One week: then extend to one month: to the rest of your life. This is a lifetime mantra, pattern, belief, behavior.

1. Keep your thoughts completely in the present, the now. If your thoughts wander -because they will! – bring them back to what is right in front of you. Sing. Look at the multiple colors in the sky. Feel the love inside of you for anything, everything, everyone you can think of. Mirror that love back inside your body. Keep it here as much as absolutely possible.

2. Repeat daily. Go to bed in gratitude for another fine day on the planet.

3. Day dream. Daily. Fill your mind with happy images. Imagine how you’d like things to be different. Doing things you desire, then immerse yourself in those joyful images. Being. Doing. How you love all the great traits and attributes of your partner, family, people at work. Our politicians. Yes them absolutely. See them doing a great job. Stay in the optimum, positive, happy. And I mean literally stay there. (Trust me those thoughts will wander into the negatives so bring them back with the power of your mind. And again and again.)

4. Repeat: totally in the present. Still your mind filling it with beauty around you. Be mindful of where your thoughts are going. Let the negatives flow out beyond your orbit. Bring yourself back to center and the positive present. Even if your reality is challenging, focus on the beauty that is still there in the little visible pieces from a favorite book, flowers, the birds chirping in the cold outside your window.

5. Day dream.

6. Repeat. Wake up daily and think of how delightful and wonderful things are– count five things that are incredible, good, great, wonderful, stellar in the world. Repeat before sleep.

7. Appreciate today. This moment. All the incredible things in your life. Focus on the immediate. Repeat. Daily. Weekly.

If you tell me nothing has shifted or changed almost immediately in your life after doing this for the next week, two to a month, then I’ll ask you honestly did you stay present? Stay in appreciation? See the best and beautiful in those around you? Imagine all the detailed extras in your circle? Because I know completely 100% the universe is on our side and will comply with what it is you dream, desire and imagine.

I realize this is a repeating theme with me, however I know this to be true, accurate and effective. It just takes reminding and repeating – like advertising- to fully sink in.

So Dream Big.

 

Cosmic sunshine to you.☀️

PS: my new book When Eagles Soar is going live on Amazon Saturday.

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“Will Powers and Neverland: Are they Compatible Companions?”

Oh Willy.  Our absent friend and supporter of good choices. We miss you. Where have you been?

Yes I’m talking about Mr. Will Powers. Our masculine base of strength and power.

In a world where hedonism and entitlement are high, addictions and over-consumption are normal, from food to sex to drugs to shopping, you-name-it, our seat of Will Power is all but invisible to non-existent. Our Will Power to follow through, say no when needed, say yes when applicable, be responsible, take action, be the adult. The will power to take initiative, stay strong through adversity, be courageous; do the right thing.

My question: Why is our absent will power the norm rather than the exception? Honestly this is a huge question as well as social issue. All we have to do is look at the high numbers of addictions, obsesity rates, number of affairs, divorces, depression to deviant behavior to give this question a serious nod. But it’s bigger than that. We now use and manipulate our childhood challenges into ‘weapons of destruction’ to get what we want in the work place to our relationships, essentially using the PC acceptable credit card to by-pass personal responsibility. (Can you imagine this ever happening in the 1940’s after WWII?) Or this could just be my perception. The reason this is an issue is our mind/body/spirit is disconnected combined with the inability to tap into our inner resources, our strengths, confidences and inner resolve.

In other words, it’s our missing Will Power. This vital ingredient equates to and supports our self confidence, self esteem and personal convictions. The reasons we fall short are multifaceted however one critical piece is the child within runs the show, making choices and decisions rather than our adult selves, our adult mind. We become stuck in our child archetype; this unfettered child pattern takes over our psyche and hinders strong decisions and smart choices. The child says yes in a no situation. Or no when yes is the best and smartest direction. The child says “Yes, I want more candy, I deserve that piece of chocolate, I desire those $500 dollar shoes, I crave sex with someone I just picked up and care less about. Yes to a new car when the personal debt is high. I want more.” The open emotional crevices become filled with the gunk, muck and mire left over from our childhood combined with the current collected debris. And we wonder why our nervous systems are taxed, anxiety is high, weight weighing the nation in illness. Perhaps it’s time to reassess.

The child is a pattern when used appropriately in an adult is a fantastic addition to our personal archetypal arsenals. It’s our excitement and enthusiasm for life, the thrill and joy of exploring, experiencing new things or repeating events because they bring joy. It’s the magic in our lives the child keeps alive and resuscitated through our golden years. The child that delivers gaiety and eagerness, fascination and spontaneity. Yet when the child within an acting adult is internally and unconsciously seeking unresolved safety, security, love, acceptance, support, and nurturing, those missing emotions drive the direction instead of the strong mature adult compass keeping the needle pointed north. Poor choices, annoying behaviors or completely irresponsible habits ensue and continue.

Some people thrive in their child, choosing Neverland and Peter Pan over growing up and taking responsibility. They’ll tell you it’s a great place to reside, hang out. And in a lot of ways it can be. However it can be rough on relationships from close partnerships to being a parent. If the partner is in child mode to the adult, the relationship will eventually fall apart as incestuousness is not sexy nor appealing, not too mention the spouse who is then fostering another child in the house. It can become incredibly tiresome expediting the dissolution. If the child archetype is dominant in the parent, desiring to be their children’s friend, acting childlike instead of the guiding adult, the child or children can become resentful and angry and/or they take on the parental role which is not theirs to own or carry.

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Honestly if the person is unaware of their Neverland tendency the revolving door of perpetual relationships, mishaps, addictions, poor choices will continue. Staying the child is not sustainable. Hopefully at this point someone will be their mirror to help them resolve old childhood issues and nurture their abandoned hearts with love, thus supporting their inner resolve and esteem. These loving friends can also share being a ‘youthful adult’ is even more rewarding than being the ‘forever child.’ In time perhaps these Peter Pans or Wendy’s can eventually wake up and shift their own awareness. Or not. Everyone has free will.

On a physical level, the seat of will power is in the solar plexus, our third chakra energy center that transcends time and space. It’s a masculine force field available for daily use to maximize our self esteem, confidence, resolve. It’s also the first place physically of intuition. “I felt that in my gut. It’s a gut feeling; I just know it.” This truly from a spiritual location, is where humanity’s evolving frequencies reside. We are in constant struggle with our global power center, our ability to empower or disempower those around us from our family to other nations. Humanity is energetically working to upgrade, shift, and move up the electrical ladder into our heart centers, a vibratory location that has the ability to transform how we do humanity. Literally.

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If you realize Peter or Wendy has too strong a grip on your daily activities, choices and behaviors, just know you have the ability anytime to assess and change course. You can nurture and love the inner child within. You can grow up, mature, take responsibility, be courageous. You can be resourceful and enthusiastic all the while utilizing your strongest strengths to say no or yes. You can embrace the joys in life, yet work through issues in the adult mind. You can move to a place of neutrality and observe the past from a failsafe position. You can look in the mirror and see the truth. You can be playful and flexible. Everything is possible. Every option is available.

And you can fly every night through the stars with Peter and Wendy, your Will inside strong, adept and playful.

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Cosmic sunshine to you.

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“Where is Will When We Need Him?”

Seriously. Where’s Will?

Have you seen him? He’s been missing for how long? How many years? Decades? It’s getting frustrating. Scary actually.

Will Powers: Masculine, strong, determined, full of confidence and self esteem. Ready to jump into the fray, stand up for others, do the right thing. Makes great choices and wise decisions. Stays positive in the face of adversity. Is mentally sharp, clever, shrewd and observant. Is a Big-Picture person. Has dry wit and verve. Stays abreast of important information and historical implications. Is knowledgeable and ‘experience’ educated. Has the strength to say yes when appropriate and no when needed. Stays healthy, athletic and flexible. Is vital and energetic. Stays out of embroiled hot-beds of scandal and dead-end opinions. Is loyal and preserving. Willing to lend a hand and shirt. Is your best friend.

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Have you seen Will lately?

If you have please let me know. We are in definite, perhaps even desperate need of personal leadership and strength. For all of us. In all of us. Contact info below.

 

Cosmic sunshine to you. ☀️

 

 

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