“If You Had Your Druthers…?”

Druthers. It’s a funny word. My late husband used to ask me with a twinkle in his eye, “What the hell is a Druther? That doesn’t even sound like a word.” Well it is. The actual definition is “our personal preference about anything.” So just imagine….

If our personal  suitcases were already chock-filled with our most well-defined, specific personal druthers, what would we have in them? What we would fill our bags to the brims with, even to the corners of the suitcase? What are our most vital preferences? Our own unique stamp on the universe?

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Actually this can be a tough question. Far too often we don’t know what our real preferences are, instead opting for other’s opinions and choices over our own. Sometimes they’re actually difficult to define, never having taken the time to dig within ourselves to discover what really makes us tick, happy and cozy and snuggled in under a comforter. We capitulate far too often being pleasers over varying opinions, food, sex, things to do, what we watch, how we do things, where to take vacations, politics, etc etc etc.

This is important. We feel giving into other’s requests, choices and sometimes even demands are the higher principles, our best spiritual path. When in truth, the opposite is true. Yes there are always times to negotiate, compromise and be kindly to someone’s requests, however abandoning our own for the sake of what? Peace, friendship, someone’s opinion of us, in the long run hinders, stagnates growth and eventually erodes the connection, the relationship. Resentment builds, damages and destroys the final emotional vestige between the parties. And/or things just slither away and decay because in truth we gave up our feminine side or our masculinity, essentially our power, to be who we think others want us to be. We each are a blend of both forces, the masculine and feminine principles, and are drawn to, intrigued by, captivated and attracted to those who are balanced within these forces, strong in who they are, those that know their druthers.

When we stick to our feeling preferences – “what feels best,” are clear with who we are, our energetic core amplifies and people are drawn to our persona. They want to share in that delightful energetic confidence we display and entertain. Best bonus is we literally become the people we’d fall in love with. For those single, this is a direct road to having a partner if this is your druther.

So what’s in your Druthers suitcase?

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Mine would and does look like this:

Family and Friends: regular quality time with all members. Deep meaningful, pithy, challenging, caring, witty, insightful, harmonious, communicative, engaging, creative, active, adventurous, and happy. And Loving. That’s a given. These are in very colorful Family and Friend bags ready to pull out on a moment’s notice. Also the old fashioned day-timer is filled with upcoming opportunities and adventures with these loved ones.

Living in the positives versus the negatives- “working towards solutions” rather than mashing over “…and the problems are.” These are woven into the suitcases threads.

Focus on global optimism and good deeds: these are the pocket liners.

Fantastic Health in body mind and spirit: these are imbued into the initial construction of fiber and steel, rubber and leather.

A continuous refilling wallet brimming in coin and dollars to share with those along the road; tucked in leather belt pouch.

Travel: as much as possible for knowledge, experience, historical detail and rich happy memories. Maps galore, the ready-to-go travel gear packed, the next tickets purchased. These are all in the outside zippered pouches.

Books, stories, reference material, gadgets, tools, smart practical gear for enhancing life’s journey to amplify and simply. Basically things of value add value. These are individually tucked away in labeled zippered bags for quick convenience. Fav stories qued up ready for a good listen around a campfire on my audible app.

Cozy soft inviting blanket: rolled up in bottom zippered section. Ready for any type of warming, cuddling, romanticizing.

Fresh organic foods available daily, packed in the cooler sections. Quick-fuel super-pea protein bars for climbing ancient sites and trails, tucked in every available oriface for easy accessibility.

Time in nature daily; daypack advantageously rolled up in side pocket.

Quality gear: clothing essentials from black tie to rugged hiking rolled tightly for optimum spacing.

Deck of cards, superball, colored pens/pencils and paper, karaoke app; back pocket near handle.

Scented essential oil candles, matches, essential oils, homeopathic first aid kit. Top small inside pocket.

Camera, binoculars, knife, rope, matches, sunscreen, body oil. Extra sunglasses. Separate pack attached to handle.

5000 song playlist.

My furry kids: Traveling Tao the Zen cat and Charlie the Wonder dog: they have their own packs with goodies.

As Ford Perfect* always says, you have to have a towel. Always. A travel towel for everything. Have three sizes all in bold orange.

Separate rollered bag for ski gear for year-round global skiing.

Travel Pass to anywhere anywhen.

E-Ticket full-meal-deal lifetime fun ride.

Leathers. Never know when a Harley needs you.

Honeyed sex as often as the calendar and schedules permit between ships, planes and trains and of course fast cars.

Willingness to make it happen. Daring Confidence in spades to go where you’ve never been.

A ready smile to meet and greet the day and the world.

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I’ll see you out there on Life’s Supra-Highway. Let’s plan on sharing stories and swapping cosmic travel tricks that melt away the worries and brings on the laughter.

 

Cosmic sunshine to you.☀️

*Ford Perfect, major player in “The Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy” by Douglass Adams. A funny delightful romp.

 

Candia Sanders is an international medical intuitive, high-frequency energy healer, motivator, speaker, teacher, author, the ultimate optimist, and outdoor enthusiast, who has helped thousands of people ease their medical issues, navigate important relationships and find their soul’s purpose and life direction. Candia is the author of the transcendent book, “Soul Rays: Discover the Vibratory Frequency of Your Soul“. She has also written a lively magical and spiritual children’s adventure called “The Adventures of Jack Starr, In Hawaii.” “When Eagles Soar: From Diagnosis, to Death and to Open Dialogue” is her story through cancer and beyond, with her husband who died in 2016. Her goal is to create a new conversation about Death.

Upcoming books: “I Don’t Know, It’s a Mystery: 11 Prompts to Awaken Your Cosmic Connection” ”The Four R’s: Rules to Navigate Life’s Big Questions,” “Head Off, Heart On: Salacious Delights and Tantalizing Treats for Happy Relationships”

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“Priced to Perfection and Creative Speculation: Investment Stategies for Your Future”

There’s an investment saying called “Priced to Perfect” which is when an asset is selling as if the business plan were already in place. An example would be in the real estate market where property is sold based on what it could be if such and such were upgraded and improved. The best choice of course is to make the investment based on what it’s worth now, at the present time not on future speculations otherwise our investment portfolio could take a dramatic hit if markets change. Sound advice financially.

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We deal in a world of “It is what it is.” Investing based on sound decisions and smart choices. Yet to me there’s a paradox on a personal level in the “It Is What Is” theory that needs examining as a reflective mirror into our psyches. Everything is a mirror of itself, a fractal of a larger concept. And besides, I love mixing and matching ideologies and theory and discover new species of thought and awareness. I’ll explain.

What if we were to utilize this concept, this belief or formula, “Priced to Perfection” for ourselves, our self value? Not to sell ourselves of course, but to imagine our worlds the way they would be, could be, will be, the way we’d love them to be and act accordingly? This is at the heart of true manifesting and the creative spark. Imagination. Instead we opt for the mantra “It is What Is,” staying in a small reality block of our own creation and can’t ever figure out why nothing changes in our worlds from our relationships to our financial successes?!? It’s because we have lost our connection to that creative speculation, the enticement of something more, that Shangri la. Because why? “It Is What Is” syndrome of course….😉 which is the never ending circle-game going counter-clockwise, counter-intuitive. Our beliefs and monkey mind-loop limit our life experiences.

“Imagination is more important than knowledge. For knowledge is limited, whereas imagination embraces the entire world, stimulating progress, giving birth to evolution.”          Albert Einstein

Honestly I’m guilty of the “It Is What Is” formula, the repeating mantra based on others beliefs and stories I’ve read that strongly suggests that if we don’t accept “what is” we can’t move forward. Okay, I get that – however – and I’m an “However” kind of girl – I believe strongly there’s a better way to create our treasures along the path, our best goals romantically to financially. It’s to believe feel act feel believe whatever our dreams are, are not only possible they’re inevitable. The hiccup of course is to stay out of the “It Is What Is” syndrome and maintain the “Priced to Perfection” speculation. The investment attitude in ourselves for ourselves for our dreams based on the chosen steps, beliefs, feelings and alignments today. That’s where the present moment of “It is What Is” comes in optimally. We are building our desires based on how we feel today.

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And honestly this requires work on our part to rewrite our stories. About twenty years ago I did this exercise where I’d write in a future journal describing all that was transpiring in my life the way I desired a year ahead of where I actually was. I did this for a period of time. Eventually the things I dreamt came into my reality, perhaps not exactly in the journal’s time-line however on a broader scope they materialized. This is one formula.

Another creative speculation tool is upon waking, sit with expansive thoughts and ideas, and sensuously experience through the six senses how it feels (see I put that in present tense for future reference) to be totally madly in love and/or wealthy, healthy and strong and whatever it is that’s not exactly where you’d like it to be. Be that person. Feel the pleasure. Share the wealth, the love.

One more jewel – is it really is the journey, the amazing path we create that’s at the heart of our own stories. But that’s easy to forget in the mad-dash to the finish line. It gets lost in the “It Is What Is” story too.  Bottom line it’s up to each of us to create our creative speculation, our “Path to Perfection.”

So make it a good one, make it fun.

 

Cosmic sunshine to you.

 

Candia Sanders is an international medical intuitive, high-frequency energy healer, motivator, speaker, teacher, author, the ultimate optimist, and outdoor enthusiast, who has helped thousands of people ease their medical issues, navigate important relationships and find their soul’s purpose and life direction. Candia is the author of the transcendent book, “Soul Rays: Discover the Vibratory Frequency of Your Soul“. She has also written a lively magical and spiritual children’s adventure called “The Adventures of Jack Starr, In Hawaii.” “When Eagles Soar: From Diagnosis, to Death and to Open Dialogue” is her story through cancer and beyond, with her husband who died in 2016. Her goal is to create a new conversation about Death.

Upcoming books: “I Don’t Know, It’s a Mystery: 11 Prompts to Awaken Your Cosmic Connection” ”The Four R’s: Rules to Navigate Life’s Big Questions,” “Head Off, Heart On: Salacious Delights and Tantalizing Treats for Happy Relationships”

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“Spiked Anticipation: What is Yours? Your Body Knows the Answer Every Time”

Here’s a question. Have you ever considered what truly gets your blood boiling-excited enough to spike your heart rate not-quite-over-the-edge but close?

With the advent of FitBit and Garmins and all the other units available to monitor our vitals we now have the ability to see up-front and personal what really curls our toes. What and where our joys and thrills and happiness reside. That anticipatory excitement. Our bodies reveal the truth every time.

I’ve been in this quasi-convo about this topic with a man who’s heart rate literally peaks everytime he has a fish on his line. He’s fishes year round by-the-way so has those happy-heart-spikes happen on a perpetual cycle. Those spikes turn on that brain-bliss-modemarrying zen and desirewithin his mind-body connection. Or when he’s turning right-left right-left on endless curvy roads with his Harley. The fish and bike spike his rate even more so than when he’s sexually aroused and excited. Pretty revealing. Could be disappointing from a certain perspective. 😉 But what’s it’s done for me is made me ask myself what gets my heart rate happy-excited-spiked-high?

To segue for a moment, if we dig honestly into our psyches usually it’s anxiety and or fear that gets us to those heart-pounding peaks, such as before a big meeting, speaking in front of a crowd, fear of flying, large crowds, tests, confronting difficult conversations, ad infinitum. There’s also the physical exertion heart-spike from pushing ourselves in sports activities.

So what spikes my heart? Spikes my bliss to generate that zen and desire brain activation? Where does my anticipation lie where my body literally responds to reveal my inner excitements? Skiing hard and fast of course, that’s a given. Hiking on demanding terrain, yep. Sex is right up there. But what I also discerned is even though I’m usually going and doing I’m also even-keeled, not overly anxious. I wonder if that has any bearing on the spiking outcome? Good question. It’s made me contemplate what do I want to add into my life that would generate that kind of spiked anticipation?

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Think about it. What do you have in your life that throws you that exhilaration-curve-ball? Makes you desire more of it? We are talking healthy here. Not bad habits and addictions. Those feed empty holes within your inner core. Every time behaviors are repeated based on poor choices and wrong motivations even if they momentarily feel good, like too much alcohol, chocolate cake, unconscious sex, etc, nothing within you actually expands, turns on that zen-desire-bliss mode. Our consciousness knows the difference. Our body does too, even if shrouded in high blood-sugar spikes, drugged or smells of sex. Bottom line to ask does this expand or retract my inner being, my consciousness? If it expands then you know it’s true Zen desire.

If you happen to have one of these strap-on-tech monitors watch your peaks and valleys. Check them against your activities, see what really curls your toes. And if things are too flatlined perhaps it’s time to add in some new anticipation. Even if you don’t have a FitBit or Garmin – I don’t – if you pay close attention you will know what really truly curls your toes creating anticipation and Zen all in one magical bliss moment.

Just desiring to spike some new anticipation into your orbit.

Cosmic sunshine to you.☀️

Candia Sanders is an international medical intuitive, high-frequency energy healer, motivator, speaker, teacher, author, the ultimate optimist, and outdoor enthusiast, who has helped thousands of people ease their medical issues, navigate important relationships and find their soul’s purpose and life direction. Candia is the author of the transcendent book, “Soul Rays: Discover the Vibratory Frequency of Your Soul“. She has also written a lively magical and spiritual children’s adventure called “The Adventures of Jack Starr, In Hawaii.” “When Eagles Soar: From Diagnosis, to Death and to Open Dialogue” is her story through cancer and beyond, with her husband who died in 2016. Her goal is to create a new conversation about Death.

Upcoming books: “I Don’t Know, It’s a Mystery: 11 Prompts to Awaken Your Cosmic Connection” ”The Four R’s: Rules to Navigate Life’s Big Questions,” “Head Off, Heart On: Salacious Delights and Tantalizing Treats for Happy Relationships”

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“Creation Versus Coincidence”

I was in this fabulous convo this weekend with opinions in opposite camps about the organization and construct of the universe vs complete random construction/destruction. It was good. Not sure if we ever agreed on the final version?

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A great friend, sharp, witty, insightful, self deprecating and willing to see every side of an issue, surprised me with her belief the world could be, might be, all-signs-point-to-a-blistering-inferno, probably is, an inherently chaotic destructive force, unordered and random and heading for the no-win-zone. Whoa! Totally took me by surprise. Well with all the global barrage of overwhelming negativity it’s easy to hop-on-that-train heading to hell. I on the other hand, no surprise here, feel completely opposite.

I’ll offer my perspective.

How I explained it was this. Imagine the earth – different than a world view right? The world is an environment filled with seven plus billion inhabitants which ironically is a great thing. We couldn’t raise the level of awareness without the high number of contributing souls. It’s physics, it’s math. Back to the earth. The earth in its magically perfectly designed trip around the sun is anchored in this heavenly cosmic grand orbit, centered around a central character, the sun, with all these strong supportive actor planets in full swing on the elliptical. Add in the bonus of our solar system enmeshed in the Milky Way galaxy in the middle of a zillion other galaxies in the universal dance of a million other universes. How flipping off the charts is this? Chaotic? Not even close. Amazingly orchestrated with divine grace, a deft hand and immense creative liberties, Absolutely. The emotional turf wars and seeming worldly chaos is created on the planet’s surface by you guessed it, you and me, us in all our grand wisdom and glory. Remove us, we remove the illusion. Bigger truth is this. Even in what appears to be chaos, bullshit, negativity, you name it, there is always a hidden story, an agenda, a cosmic blueprint of immense proportions that keeps everything aligned in its perfection. I marvel at the complexities.

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We can take the grand view, the macro out of the cosmos and drop it down to the micro, to our own personal stories and dramas and life blueprints. For me everything has a purpose a season a plan. Everything is for us, supporting us. Even with our free-will capabilities, maybe even more so.

I love the justice, the balance. The magic.

A neighbor was a rather shady attorney, arrogant, narracistic, self centered and quite egotistically male. Women were there for what he needed. Period. No respect. He’d get crooks out on loopholes, men who raped free on technicalities. Bad karma in some circles.  Essentially there was zero self reflection. He just kept making money adding to his empire to expand his castle. As divine order would have it, he and his short term girlfriend at the time got pregnant with…wait for it, a daughter. How beautifully perfect is that? Some of these hee-haws out on bail, these rapers, cons and derelicts he’d released  were now on his personal radar. I recall several events when he was truly scared and fearful of robbery, blackmail and personal injury. Some bad shit did transpire in a neighborhood where nothing traumatic happened. They were fairly major turning events. He had to shift, change his perspective, his direction, how he treated others, how he viewed the world. He now had to be vigilant about His daughter. How divinely orchestrated is that? The universe slapped him out of complicity and into insightful productivity. I Love how the path cleared for him to proceed more wisely, directing him back to center. Chaotic or divinely organized?

Another man who had been quite the womanizer in his life seducing well over a hundred plus women obviously working within a Don Juan archetype, was also given the gift of a daughter who is now dating men who’d been like him. He’s seeing her get her heart broken by young men with similar behaviors to his. This is Universal balancing of the emotional *sexperiential scales offering wisdom and ops for some self reflection, deeper internal growth and healthy emotional clearing. Essentially respect for the feminine within and without.  Awareness and empathy are a positive byproduct from both sides of the experience: each individual gains from how the other feels. Because of the blood tie, the love-bond, they can see it (it being the story, the dialogue) through the other’s eyes even more clearly than through a girlfriend/boyfriend experience. Loving buddy soul pals, in both cases the father/daughter dynamic, stepping up to play their parts for emotional expansion. Everyone wins.

A woman who as a young teenager was sexually and emotionally harassed by her stepdad, married three times, had four children, went through some horrendously challenging times losing a son, had breast cancer, an ex-husband going to jail on rape charges, (who was playing out the final chapter of the stepfather) finally said “Enough,” stopped the drain-train, got off and switched to another track. She looked at all the events in her life, saw her part in them, the role of being at the end of the whip instead of holding the handle, grabbed it hard and changed her direction. Tired of playing the victim to a series of randomly appearing events she took charge to claim her destiny. She learned from the tipped scales. She saw the value of the ride, the wealth of people in her life, the value in herself. She changed her focus, connected with an old flame. They are now happily married, her fourth and final. She laid claim to her own happiness not in spite of but because of the sorrows and conflict and pain with a nod of gratitude to the support of all the leading actors in her play. She tossed her Victim archetype in the closet and locked the door.

Each one of the people who played their parts with aplomb and panache in these examples of the Grand Cosmic Play did so with conviction and superb acting skills. Each one supports the other’s master plan. It’s elegant and magical and intricately woven. They’re excellent examples of ordered cosmic mechanics in what could appear to be random events. Willing participants signed up to help each other grow and love and learn and expand. Not random or chaotic, just a free-will planet where we get to get dirty till we learn to stand under the cosmic “aha” waterfall. Where we learn by examples and mistakes. Three steps forward, one step back. We get better, improve expand. A lovingly designed ordered universe completely supporting our journeys, encouraging us moment by moment to be our best and get our shit together.

That’s my version anyway.

Cosmic sunshine to you. ☀️

*Sexperiential came about due to Otto, my typo-correcting iPad agent that has perverse deviltry in him at times. An S was left over from a previously erased word dangling in front of experiential. I thought it too good not to remain. I took it as synchronicity not too mention funny. Maybe it’s just my wicked sense of irony and humor.

Candia Sanders is an international medical intuitive, high-frequency energy healer, motivator, speaker, teacher, author, the ultimate optimist, and outdoor enthusiast, who has helped thousands of people ease their medical issues, navigate important relationships and find their soul’s purpose and life direction. Candia is the author of the transcendent book, “Soul Rays: Discover the Vibratory Frequency of Your Soul“. She has also written a lively magical and spiritual children’s adventure called “The Adventures of Jack Starr, In Hawaii.” “When Eagles Soar: From Diagnosis, to Death and to Open Dialogue” is her story through cancer and beyond, with her husband who died in 2016. Her goal is to create a new conversation about Death.

Upcoming books: “I Don’t Know, It’s a Mystery: 11 Prompts to Awaken Your Cosmic Connection” ”The Four R’s: Rules to Navigate Life’s Big Questions,” “Head Off, Heart On: Salacious Delights and Tantalizing Treats for Happy Relationships”

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“The Cosmic Paradox: Everything is Perfect Exactly the Way it Is – Yet…”

This weekend I listened to my very impassioned cousin espouse the evils of the world. She is so ready to take on all the villains that are holding women “back,” who are “ripping children from their families” she can hardly contain herself. It is her calling, her mission, essentially her soul’s mission, to do this. Nothing will get in her path to make good on bad things. I replied how fortunate we are to have her on the planet to help in such big ways. I mean it. Yet ironically, I believe there’s a bigger dynamic. I’ll explain.

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Her Jungian archetype she brought into this life’s play is the Advocate. An advocate is one who advocates, who stands up for, defends, speaks for others. She cannot not do this! It’s what she came to do. Her karma or rather Dharma -her life’s calling and story-line- have led her to this moment where she can step up to these intense internal heart-soul beliefs and make a significant difference, or as in many cases where we tend to allow life to dictate our experiences rather than embrace them, she can retire and walk away. Choices, always choices. They are the choices of empowered living or living a fated story. Our decision. Obviously she’s choosing empowered.

So. Here’s the Cosmic Paradox. If you were to ask 99.9% of the world’s population “Is the world perfect the way it is? Is the world in dire need of help, change and focus?” The answers would unequivocally be “No, the world is absolutely not perfect. And my god yes. The world needs help.” Even in the spiritual cosmic worlds the leaders are saying the sky is falling. Yikes! So contrary to Spiritual law! From a wider view, a cosmic perspective, the world IS perfect just the way it is.

How is this possible?

Imagine going back to the time before you entered into physicality. Yes, the time before birth. You are deciding all the things you need to experience to expand your vision, your perspectives to enhance the depth of your soul. You choose to be an advocate for the down trodden, an artist to brighten the world for others, an engineer to boldly construct designs, a statesman to motivate the world politically, a rebel to keep awareness strong and question old mores, a teacher to uplift and educate, a caregiver to aid those in physical, mental and emotional duress, an environmentalist to work with the planet…….etc etc etc. We choose to come to schoolyard earth to broaden who we are, be more, learn experience enhance be play love laugh cry -everything we can get our hands on. It’s our soul’s mission.

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If everything were golden, peaceful, blissful, beautiful, would those missives be learned, played out, forged like iron into the soul’s Repository? Ponder that for a moment. Seriously. Would my cousin be able to play out the Advocate if everything were solved? When she leaves the planet would her life’s work be complete? Now take a deep breath and fly over the planet in your mind. See all the live action, the life of the inhabitants the energetic mix of biology and divinity. See all the options, the possibilities we have to test, hats to try on, the adventures that await. The stories to live and be. Connect into All That Is. It is a fecund swirling energetic rich mix of creativity and consciousness. It’s truly amazing. And perfect the way it is. Because why? We have the ability to be more, do more because of where the entire cosmic creation IS at this moment. We can do live experience breathe our soul’s life’s calling – our goals.

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And yet….it is the evolution of things, the acts of making a difference that will continue to aid and abet the overall raising of consciousness of everyone and everything.

And bigger picture yet…repeat repeat repeat, reload…this is a continuing revolving record on my end- the more we focus on the good of this planet rather than all the shit and muck and yuck, the faster we will transform our state of awareness and consciousness. It truly is a Passion Play.

Cosmic sunshine to you.

Candia Sanders is an international medical intuitive, high-frequency energy healer, motivator, speaker, teacher, author, the ultimate optimist, and outdoor enthusiast, who has helped thousands of people ease their medical issues, navigate important relationships and find their soul’s purpose and life direction. Candia is the author of the transcendent book, “Soul Rays: Discover the Vibratory Frequency of Your Soul“. She has also written a lively magical and spiritual children’s adventure called “The Adventures of Jack Starr, In Hawaii.” “When Eagles Soar: From Diagnosis, to Death and to Open Dialogue” is her story through cancer and beyond, with her husband who died in 2016. Her goal is to create a new conversation about Death.

Upcoming books: “I Don’t Know, It’s a Mystery: 11 Prompts to Awaken Your Cosmic Connection” ”The Four R’s: Rules to Navigate Life’s Big Questions,” “Head Off, Heart On: Salacious Delights and Tantalizing Treats for Happy Relationships”

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“The “Frequency Fix” and Why it’s Important to Do and Maintain”

I just finished a three day workshop/retreat at my special off-grid hideaway in the Washington Cascades. It poured relentlessly unfortunately – or was it – as it kept us under the eves hunkered down in blankets before the fire, intuiting, listening, seeing, expanding and sharing. We did colored chakra clearings through special lenses, drank sun-drenched color-enhanced water to enliven the systems, colored and focused on mandalas for the Zen zone, sat in a crystal-compass grid to align the body with the earth’s magnetics and did sound healing for raising frequencies within the body. In other words we heightened our senses to amp our intuition.

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Ironically living off-grid I have solar and wind, in another sense and description – color and sound – as you can feel and see the sun and feel and hear the wind. We mirrored the energy systems for fueling my cabin, The Spirit Lodge, by fueling our body’s systems with sound, color, taste and touch. From a practical sense – solar – the light and heat of the sun, provides more energy than wind energy even with the summer afternoon winds we get on the lake. Is it any wonder why ancient cultures incorporated the Sun-God, the Son-God into their mythology from Mithraism, to Egyptian, Sumerian, Phrygian, Tibetan, Nepalese, and Java cultures etc, all across the globe including Christianity? The sun provides the fuel, heat and light for life in all forms. There is no coincidence.

In doing these various exercises with group focus provides the extra amp-age, the upping of everyone’s intuitive knowingness. The question arises – sorry guys- but mostly from men, as to why is this necessary? Since time immortal, man or rather humankind has questioned our existence on the planet. The why do we exist bit. Who am I? What is my purpose? Do we just have a one-time-run around the planet? Are we here just to play, be self indulgent, eat, drink, take drugs, sex ourselves into delirium (Rome tried) or go into the total religious immersion to explain humanity’s story or is there more to the spin around the cosmos? In amping our frequencies, our bodies’ energies, we become healthier for starters which is essential in our toxic world. Amping our vibrations literally, as most are heavy physically, emotionally and mentally, expands our visceral perceptions and observations, allows emotions to be more real, substantive, available and not buried; we dive deeper into ourselves. We learn to speak from a loving knowing place of reading our audience, saying things to support, comfort, humor and love each other in funny and wise ways. We step into our power vortexes and focus on our passions sharing the fruits of our labors. We listen to our inner knowingness, our connection to the creative spark of the universal consciousness. Essentially we learn – we remember – we rewire, and put together/remember our fragmented pieces and reconnect with the cosmic grid of creation. It puts us in the driver’s seat – instead of driving without a clutch – to make the very most of this wild earthly ride. Information and Awareness are king.

We become better people, better women, better men.

And in my world where we’ve all experienced both sides of the fence in multiple ways in multiple experiences, the man/woman side of the reincarnational-eternity-spin, there is no finger pointing as we are all here to expand, experience and amp it up.

Think about joining us sometime in your potential future to amp your personal powerful frequencies on Swift in the embrace of Mt St Helens. It’s truly a magical place.

Cosmic sunshine to you.

Remember everything is vibration and frequency. Everything. 

Candia Sanders is an international medical intuitive, high-frequency energy healer, motivator, speaker, teacher, author, the ultimate optimist, and outdoor enthusiast, who has helped thousands of people ease their medical issues, navigate important relationships and find their soul’s purpose and life direction. Candia is the author of the transcendent book, “Soul Rays: Discover the Vibratory Frequency of Your Soul“. She has also written a lively magical and spiritual children’s adventure called “The Adventures of Jack Starr, In Hawaii.” “When Eagles Soar: From Diagnosis, to Death and to Open Dialogue” is her story through cancer and beyond, with her husband who died in 2016. Her goal is to create a new conversation about Death.

Upcoming books: “I Don’t Know, It’s a Mystery: 11 Prompts to Awaken Your Cosmic Connection” ”The Four R’s: Rules to Navigate Life’s Big Questions,” “Head Off, Heart On: Salacious Delights and Tantalizing Treats for Happy Relationships”

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“Our Cosmic Life Theses: What Are Yours?”

Have you ever thought about your overall life theme? Your life thesis? What you came here to learn, do, be? Because you do have one, or several or better yet, multiple emotional life exercises and dissertations to embrace, embody and carry with you on “departure.”  The choice is yours to accept, expand, avoid or negate, to do again if needed when you’re ready in another lifetime spin.

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The lifetime themes can be wrapped around a multitude of challenges and major learning curves from opening our hearts fully to love, grief and loss, communication in every kind of forum in personal to public arenas, family dynamics, sex and it’s many colored avenues of one partner to multiples, monogamy and infidelity, empowerment and self esteem, opening up our personal awareness, observation, intellect, intuition and wisdom, and the heightened code of personal depth, value and integrity, honesty and trust. We can choose to experience the shadow side of these subjects to create diversity and appreciation.  Everyday we are given options to create our best masterpiece.

I also feel these life themes follow us no matter what – through the curves and changes, windfalls and switch-ups we elect and select because we signed up for them. Signed the dotted line upon departure. We literally agreed with our souls to Expand in our human capacities. – Fear often derails are best intentions once we arrive. – If we were to seriously assess and curiously examine the various life chapters in detail, we may discover what was planned once-upon-a-time with this person or that job or location and didn’t happen or unfold, often shows up again with another face and place till we get the emotional gist, the deeper heart strings attached so as to gain greater depth. It’s the old repeat theme again.

I’ll share a couple examples. Hopefully they’ll offer insight for personal examination of life themes as the more we know and unravel the deeper aspects of ourselves, our personalities and soul complexities, the happier and easier and more joyful this ride is.

When I was 24, I was offered a great job with Crazy Shirts of Hawaii. They were going to move me to Oahu to learn the biz for six months then move me to LA to open my own store. Silly me didn’t take the damn job, why? Because I wanted to stay in Hawaii and not move to LA. I was young what can I say? Bad choice or was it? At 27, a week after my return from traveling Europe by myself for nearly a year, a Lifer (my nickname for my lifetime friends) called and asked me to housesit for her in Malibu. How could I pass on that? Living above the Pacific in a servant’s house, the ocean lulling me to sleep nightly? Oh yeah baby! While they traveled I lived there for six weeks having gotten a job in the valley, then found a cute place to live in North Hollywood. LA. I ended up there anyway. It wasn’t about the job it was about the location, the experience and the people who are still in my life because of it. It’s the emotional adventure that’s the gold.

In my mid-twenties I dated back to back two men who were the oldest and the youngest guys in my dating career. I was engaged to be married to the man 12 years older. I called the wedding off weeks before the event only to start dating this wildly fun and adventurous and yes, very sexy young man seven years younger. Okay, he was a baby, pretty and handsome, but a very fun one. I stayed friends with both. Ironically years later,  both died of cancer one year apart. I remember thinking wow, I’d have been a young widow either way if we’d stayed together. But irony or rather my life-theme-commitment to assist someone with their illness, obviously cancer, be there for them, share their fears and small victories and personally move into early widowhood happened anyway. I obviously signed up for this gig as one way or another it was going to unfold. The bigger point was it didn’t matter the person or relationship as much as the experience of cancer, loss and moving through the emotional tsunami. The commitment to learning this emotional theme appears even on my hands, my palm handprint analysis; sharing sadness with a broader audience to expand perceptions. Big lifetime learning curve no matter which path or person I chose.

People or rather our soul buddy pals sign up to assist our travels, our adventures, our lifetime assignments to share in the guts and gore and glory to amp the ride, broaden the weft, splash on the color. I thank these three men for adding value and true heart deepening awareness in my life. Due to being a free-will-planet, our soul buddy pals can move along the life playing board throwing the dice and moving where they desire all the while assisting us. If they move too far out of our orbit someone new will step up to fill their shoes to match our personal story.  Like my husband did years later after I’d left both earlier relationships. It’s truly a fascinating adventure with all the players moving in unison even when it appears from our limited vision to be the opposite and out of sync. The perfectly orchestrated Divine spin is still in progress.

It’s a beautiful thing.

I highly recommend examining your life chapters, see the synchronicities, the familiar themes and assess the learning that was gained, -the overall emotional story- because there are patterns, similarities, repeats, and reverse osmosis. Same story different person but the lessons the same.  Affairs you were pissed off and hurt by only to do the same to someone else. What was learned in the process if anything? Compassion, empathy, understanding? Because then you learned what you signed up for- otherwise…repeat. Jobs you complained about only to find the same job repeated along the career path. Did you change strategy or remain the same? What was gained? Changed? Understood? Move to a new location only to have the same themes play out with new players? New realizations? Added perceptions? Your health and vitality? What is illness or disease teaching you? Have you garnered the information and knowledge? What emotional awareness is to be gained? There’s a theme happening, something incredibly rich to be learned and when you get it, see it and add into your tool chest of experience, you are happier, more self empowered, more open and caring, deliberate with your thoughts and actions. The goal is being tuned to that opening, that expansiveness in awareness, the deepening of yourself so as to merge into the greater consciousness of the cosmos.

These are the soul reasons you/we/I sign up for the commitments we agree to experience  – to leave this venture wiser richer deeper from the story.

 

Cosmic sunshine to you.

 

Candia Sanders is an international medical intuitive, high-frequency energy healer, motivator, speaker, teacher, author, the ultimate optimist, and outdoor enthusiast, who has helped thousands of people ease their medical issues, navigate important relationships and find their soul’s purpose and life direction. Candia is the author of the transcendent book, “Soul Rays: Discover the Vibratory Frequency of Your Soul“. She has also written a lively magical and spiritual children’s adventure called “The Adventures of Jack Starr, In Hawaii.” “When Eagles Soar: From Diagnosis, to Death and to Open Dialogue” is her story through cancer and beyond, with her husband who died in 2016. Her goal is to create a new conversation about Death.

Upcoming books: “I Don’t Know, It’s a Mystery: 11 Prompts to Awaken Your Cosmic Connection” ”The Four R’s: Rules to Navigate Life’s Big Questions,” “Head Off, Heart On: Salacious Delights and Tantalizing Treats for Happy Relationships”

 

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