“The Experiences that Define Us or Not: Rape in a Co-Ed Toilette”

We are a sum total of our experiences. Period. Everything we think, believe, act upon, are from our experiences.

Experiences:

1. Noun:  practical contact with and observation of facts or events.

2. Verb: encounter or undergo (an event or occurrence).

It’s how we chose to interface with our experiences, carry them with us, let go, and/or embrace them that defines who we are.  We are a total amalgamation of color and spice, flavor and scent, time and adventure. Of course some of these experiences are simply fantastic, the adventures rich, the emotions deep. The memory photo albums are thick with long tales of laughter and love. This is the action part of the word itself, the verb form of experience, the “undergoing of the event.”   These are the experiences we collect, savor and save and throw into our emotional Lifepack, the only thing we can take with us when we leave this reality.

Then there’s the other side of the river with the opposite set of experiences filled with dark shadows and gloomy emotions. They are the important character-builder-experiences we can choose to grow from – or not. Become the victim or not.  An important element to consider and essentially remember is the experience is just that, an experience. This is where the noun element of the word experience comes into focus: practical contact and observation of facts and events.  When life throws us a major curve ball, it’s essential to observe the experience not taking it on, letting it dissolve and disappear into the ethers so it doesn’t jump into our lifepack on its own. In other words, when we are the observer the events aren’t life deminishing.

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A case in point. A client was recently raped in a euro community restroom/toilet. The perp slammed-dunked her as she tried to exit taking her completely by surprise. The positives are she kept her head, got the police and hospital involved and had him arrested. But subsequently she’s been dealing with the self torture, guilt and personal recriminations of how could this have happened? Could she have avoided it? It’s been an emotional headtrip of replaying the story a zillion times in her head. Recognizing it’s a past experience that is NOT her, is the baseline emotional solution. Replaying the scene as the observer and incorporating herself as a super hero/ine adds the inner strength of confidence and resolve that reshapes history.

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We change our memories each time we tell the story. New elements are added and deleted within the brain literally shifting the meaning and memories, creating new synapses and electrical links. Knowing this we have the advantage of rewriting old scripts and reshaping our personal histories into better stronger faster brighter resolutions.  

Taking this one more step, imagine an image of a person walking with the sun behind them, the silhouette strong yet softened by the glow of light. The details become muted. As they walk shadow colors drop in the wake of movement and dissolve into the space behind them. These dissolved colors are the events and experiences the person no longer needs to have in their personal space and memories; through intention they allow the story to flow into the past. It becomes like watching a movie where we can relate to the emotions, fears, sadness, experiences, you name it, simultaneously allowing the negative energies to flow through and beyond them and ourselves. This creates clarity and a new life chapter.

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Bottom line: shit happens and in this case really horrible negative shit. But we each have the option to take the strengths or the negatives with us in our Lifepacks. Because even in the face of deep adversity, inner core strength is gained, maybe more so.

We can choose which life-altering, rock-our-boat-memories and experiences we hold in our hearts and take with us on our final sunset. Again, it’s how we Choose to “carry, let go, embrace”  each of these moments that molds, shapes and sculpts our persona. It’s up to us to Choose the ones we desire.

 

Cosmic sunshine to you. ☀️

 

I would highly recommend two books if you have dealt with or are having continuing unresolved traumas from outside events:

‘The Goddess in Every Woman,’ ‘The Gods in Every Man,’ each by Jean Shinoda Bolen. She addresses the archetypes within each of us from the perspective of the Greek gods. They can add fire and strength to our character profiles in times of need and introspection into the good experiences.

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Candia Sanders is an international medical intuitive, high-frequency energy healer, motivator, speaker, teacher, author, the ultimate optimist, and outdoor enthusiast, who has helped thousands of people ease their medical issues, navigate important relationships and find their soul’s purpose and life direction. Candia is the author of the transcendent book, “Soul Rays: Discover the Vibratory Frequency of Your Soul“. She has also written a lively magical and spiritual children’s adventure called “The Adventures of Jack Starr, In Hawaii.” “When Eagles Soar: From Diagnosis, to Death and to Open Dialogue” is her story through cancer and beyond, with her husband who died in 2016. Her goal is to create a new conversation about Death.

Upcoming books: “I Don’t Know, It’s a Mystery: 11 Prompts to Awaken Your Cosmic Connection” ”The Four R’s: Rules to Navigate Life’s Big Questions,” “Head Off, Heart On: Salacious Delights and Tantalizing Treats for Happy Relationships”

 

 

 

 

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“Cleavage, Clits, Cannes and Cocks”

Bold right? But I’m just saying it the way it is. We are living in an interesting sexual paradigm, where the MeToo movement is jettisoning across the country for obvious reasons, executives are stepping down under public pressure juxtaposed against open cleavage even on public TV paired with men in suits and ties.  And if you didn’t catch any photos taken in Cannes, you might consider taking a perusal. Not only are bras a thing of the past, now panties are too with dresses slit to the navel and visible genitalia is ready for scrutiny.  Most of the women have their pubic hair shaved in creative designs for all to view.

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If men did the same thing and decided to walk around with their cocks hanging out women would be outraged and scream diatribes about perverted disgusting men, who do they think they are? Walking with their penises naked and visible. Ahrrggg! Funny the rules of engagement. Or is it just me that sees the irony?  I understand the significance of women walking tall, being as open to their sexuality as possible, standing in their power, yet there is still irony.

History plays into this. Prior to the last five thousand years, we were a matriarchal society. Women were powerful; they were venerated and treated with respect, honor and high regard. Things shifted, men rose to leadership, religion heavily influenced society, with men writing the rules. Women were removed from power, the Goddess hidden, the scared feminine shadowed, women being subjugated for centuries the result. Women resorted to feminine wiles to get what they needed and required.  Over the last hundred years women have broken the old rules of engagement, shaken the status quo and have ignited open feminine sexuality to orgasmic levels. Women are showing their courageous prowess at the same time expecting men to behave in unprecedented ways and learn new dance moves. The younger generations are already up to speed, the older set, well, they have some catching up to do.

The polarity pendulum is swinging hard in both directions, to the socialistic left to the conservative right, religion on the run, democracy scattered. In the midst is the sexual balancing of the divine feminine and the sacred masculine each trying to discern their roles till they reach a place of balance.

Another consideration to throw on the bonfire is personal responsibility and intelligence, making sound decisions on accepting sketchy invitations, saying yes or no when applicable, wearing clothes in appropriate settings. Another thought is to throw all the old rules and paradigms on the fire, watch our old morality codes go up in flames and walk naked around the embers. Recreating Eden.

The bottom line is men’s brains are hardwired a certain way, their manliness and sexual identity a large piece of the equation. Women are designed as magnificently yet emotionally different; our goddess selves emerging gracefully and boldly. It’s superb universal craftsmanship!!  Finding balance and respect between the two alien cultures is paramount. Understanding through perseverance imperative. Striving beyond old outmoded behaviors crucial.

Personal responsibilty is at the heart of it all. ❤️ To find the true balance between the masculine principle and the feminine it has to begin with us. We each have both male and female, yin and yang, within our psyches. Until they are balanced within our own behaviors the world will continue to mirror the imperfect scales. 

‘Here’s to perfect balance.

Cosmic sunshine to you. ☀️

In college I had a date-rape situation with a good friend of two years. He was struggling with his sexuality and who better to play it out with but a close friend. Being held against my will by a man double my size, my clothes being torn, hot breath on my face was a horrible event. I fortunately held my head and talked my way out of it before he was able to consummate the deal. I grabbed my things and ran. So yes, I speak from personal experience.

At the same time, I have had the direct ability to go intuitively within a man’s thinking, to see with his eyes. We are all in this together. 

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Candia Sanders is an international medical intuitive, high-frequency energy healer, motivator, speaker, teacher, author, the ultimate optimist, and outdoor enthusiast, who has helped thousands of people ease their medical issues, navigate important relationships and find their soul’s purpose and life direction. Candia is the author of the transcendent book, “Soul Rays: Discover the Vibratory Frequency of Your Soul“. She has also written a lively magical and spiritual children’s adventure called “The Adventures of Jack Starr, In Hawaii.” “When Eagles Soar: From Diagnosis, to Death and to Open Dialogue” is her story through cancer and beyond, with her husband who died in 2016. Her goal is to create a new conversation about Death.

Upcoming books: “I Don’t Know, It’s a Mystery: 11 Prompts to Awaken Your Cosmic Connection” ”The Four R’s: Rules to Navigate Life’s Big Questions,” “Head Off, Heart On: Salacious Delights and Tantalizing Treats for Happy Relationships”

 

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“The Best Advice from Mr. Mountain Man”

17751D53-389C-4215-9CC7-805393010AABI have this friend. I’ve known him since junior high. We have skied together throughout the decades, sharing life stories. He’s unique. He has this amazing capacity to be totally present, has a strength of moral character and integrity that’s rare and an optimism that prevails daily. His attitude is “Well, what’s the prob? Just go do it.” And he does. He Nordic skis to the top of Hoodoo Ski Bowl here in Oregon every morning he’s home, then downhill skis the rest of the day. He will bike fifty miles afterwards. He’s an animal. He tunes skis at night and volunteers his ski-tuning skills for local ski teams. A philanthropist too.

One of his life mottos has been to ask older people for their advice and wisdom. He listens and learns, ingesting their recommendations, becoming friends along the way. This is brilliant. He actually has an old-timer feel to him from absorbing their wisdom along the road.  His desire is to become one of those elderly wise men in their 80’s and 90’s and into his 100’s who help, teach and share rare and rich life pearls. He’ll do it too.

Here’s the bigger piece on Mr Mountain Man. It’s the staying totally within his sphere, his light of influence, seeing only the best in the world around him that’s unique. He sees the good everywhere and laughs at life’s absurdities. A simple yet incredibly effective formula. And because this is his perception, it’s the world he creates. A flipping brilliant strategy. He knows no strangers; everyone loves him.

Mr. Mountain Man has never read The Secret or the Law of Attraction yet he abides by their premises in his direct approach to life, its simplicity and his sheer optimism. He doesn’t over-complicate the situation and openly loves his family and friends. He loves life.

We all need a Mountain Man in our lives to remind us of how easy and smooth and happy life can be when we literally make it happen. Just do it! Focus on the good in life. Keep the pace going or start something new. Ratchet it up a notch and push ourselves further faster harder because it feels good.

And so I did. I skied my ass off and the coconut ice cream I had the night before.

Here’s to further faster harder. Oh yeah- all with the positive zen-happy Mr Mountain Man attitude.

 

Cosmic sunshine to you,

 

Candia Sanders is an international medical intuitive, high-frequency energy healer, motivator, speaker, teacher, author, the ultimate optimist, and outdoor enthusiast, who has helped thousands of people ease their medical issues, navigate important relationships and find their soul’s purpose and life direction. Candia is the author of the transcendent book, “Soul Rays: Discover the Vibratory Frequency of Your Soul“. She has also written a lively magical and spiritual children’s adventure called “The Adventures of Jack Starr, In Hawaii.” “When Eagles Soar: From Diagnosis, to Death and to Open Dialogue” is her story through cancer and beyond, with her husband who died in 2016. Her goal is to create a new conversation about Death.

Upcoming books: “I Don’t Know, It’s a Mystery: 11 Prompts to Awaken Your Cosmic Connection” ”The Four R’s: Rules to Navigate Life’s Big Questions,” “Head Off, Heart On: Salacious Delights and Tantalizing Treats for Happy Relationships”

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“Chemtrails, Chaos and Crap: Time to Change the Channel”

I turned the TV off other than Netflix, Amazon and occasionally Hulu. Not only is it better on the checkbook, it’s better on my well-being. All the garbage and negativity presented, not too mention the immense vapid programming, well, enough said. Truth is we have a lot of shit going down – however – and this is huge, it’s how we choose to address the chaos, negativity and pollution that creates the solution. Change the channel, essentially. So let’s change the channel on the chaos in general.

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I’ll offer a shining example. Chemtrails. When I was a kid the vapor emitted, the contrail, from jets dissipated and evaporated quickly. Now the exhaust lingers for hours and hours, the skies a woven plaid tapestry. Additional chemicals have been added to the fuels to emit and filter into the air, our environment. There’s reported toxic aluminum on Mt Shasta in remote wilderness areas, the only explanation being air pollution, acid rain and jet Chemtrails. And yes, the government has confessed to its involvement. The purpose however, completely eludes me???

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Options are: Get Involved, Write Letters to Congressmen, Protest. AND. OR. Change the channel. Instead of getting pissed when I look at the milky skies, I look at the trails as literal sky highways to adventurous places. Like threads of a cozy blanket, to make life comfortable. I’m sending them goodness. Changing the frequencies. It’s also changes my body, my frequencies. I change my mind and I literally feel better. And it changes the impact of the chemtrails. Straight-up, serious! This can be proven through quantum physics. The observer can change the trajectory, the outcome and results through their beliefs. This is science. It’s the power of positive thinking. Prayer and meditation have the same impact when presented from the positive angle.

This can be applied to everything: war, global warming,  politics, social editing, stress, relationships, health, especially health.  There’s a much bigger picture playing here, one of evolutionary cosmic proportions. However if fear and anger are the mantra, which are dead-ends, then perhaps it’s time to Change the Channel. Over everything. Get the remote and click the damn button.

Best news everyone is happier, the world a better place, the environment strong, resilient, and healthy.

And if you need a new remote, I’ve heard Amazon is having a sale.

 

Cosmic sunshine to you.

 

Candia Sanders is an international medical intuitive, high-frequency energy healer, motivator, speaker, teacher, author, the ultimate optimist, and outdoor enthusiast, who has helped thousands of people ease their medical issues, navigate important relationships and find their soul’s purpose and life direction. Candia is the author of the transcendent book, “Soul Rays: Discover the Vibratory Frequency of Your Soul“. She has also written a lively magical and spiritual children’s adventure called “The Adventures of Jack Starr, In Hawaii.” “When Eagles Soar: From Diagnosis, to Death and to Open Dialogue” is her story through cancer and beyond, with her husband who died in 2016. Her goal is to create a new conversation about Death.

Upcoming books: “I Don’t Know, It’s a Mystery: 11 Prompts to Awaken Your Cosmic Connection” ”The Four R’s: Rules to Navigate Life’s Big Questions,” “Head Off, Heart On: Salacious Delights and Tantalizing Treats for Happy Relationships”

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‘A Romance Re-Boot”

Spring-time. Sunshine, happiness, movement. Fresh beginnings, like new buds shooting through the soul. (auto-correct, “soul” was to be soil. Did it twice. Perfect, right?) Cupid and Pan’s love arrows shooting through our hearts, our souls. How does falling-in-love with your partner again, sound? Very spring-like-exciting. Romantic. Falling-in-love, period? Falling-in-love with life? Have you thought about it? Maybe it’s time for a romance-reboot!

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What I’ve learned, when I decide to really focus on whatever my goals are, my desires, in this case, LOVE, they begin to take form, shape and happen like magic before my eyes. I have also learned to recognize where my desires are incongruous with old, tightly-held, beliefs from various experiences over the course of my life, which can create the opposite ineffectual results. And therein lies the disconnect between our desires and hopeful outcomes – the inconsistencies inside ourselves. The important life-changing recipe is seeing, acknowledging and feeling where the emotional obsolescent rubbish is buried and what it has to teach us. Not always a fun prospect when it’s incredibly revealing.

I’ll offer an example. I’m writing, focusing on all these great, wonderful, awesome, loving things I desire in my relationship, when I had this “aha,” realization, this very loud, “oh shit” moment. I’ve always desired to be loved and valued for who I am, as I am, whether I was twenty something or now decades later. My kick-my-butt-across-the-room reality check was, “but I don’t always love them for who they are, wanting to “improve” them on some level, fix their ailments, heal their sorrows.” Holy Hello! To have that reflected back to me, I have to embody it. This is honestly a challenge for me as the healer, the intuitive, always seeing the bigger picture. My lesson is to step back, be that, do that, love them with all their weirdness, (as if I’m normal) their silly childlike behaviors, quirks and glitches and lack of decorum. Arrggg. But it’s universal law, so I’d better get over myself really quickly.

To have the relationships we desire we have to be All we want in someone else, to be their incredible mirror. Now this doesn’t mean you have to be an accountant if you’re an artist. No, this is about those inner values we hold near and dear that we want – desire – deeply in our lives. We have to see and do and feel and act and BELIEVE the same way we desire to be treated and loved.

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That’s why, when people ask me, are they ever going to meet “that” partner, it’s a wake-up call to themselves to look within, to see what needs spring-cleaning, removed and improved. Old emotional broken-down antiques. Interior junk respectively.

If you’re ready for some kick-ass revitalization, a “Springtime Romance-with-Love-and-Life-Reboot” and need assistance clearing out the schmutz, perhaps it’s time for that spring appointment.

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Utilize spring cleaning as a great metaphor for emotional laundering and clarifying. It feels great both inside and out. I send you the best cleaning detergents, gloves, brooms, dust-busters and garbage bags to collect the emotional debris.

Cosmic romantic sunshine.
Upcoming classes and workshops:

April:
‘Making the Practical, Magical”
Karma Yoga, Clackamas

May 2nd
Blooming with the Boomers
“Empower You: How to Wear Your Crown and not Trip”
Seattle, Washington

June 8-10
“High Octane Zen Amplified”
Swift Reservoir Washington
More info to follow

July 15th
“Elemental Journey”
Swift Reservoir Washington
Info to follow

For questions, or more details: 360.608.9555

(For those who received this as a news letter – apologies. I’m in the final throws of book editing and am in screen-time overload. Happy spring. ❤️)

 

Candia Sanders is an international medical intuitive, high-frequency energy healer, motivator, speaker, teacher, author, the ultimate optimist, and outdoor enthusiast, who has helped thousands of people ease their medical issues, navigate important relationships and find their soul’s purpose and life direction.Candia is the author of the transcendent book, “Soul Rays: Discover the Vibratory Frequency of Your Soul“. She has also written a lively magical and spiritual children’s adventure called “The Adventures of Jack Starr, In Hawaii.” “When Eagles Soar: From Diagnosis, to Death and to Open Dialogue” is her story through cancer and beyond with her husband who died in 2016. Her goal is to create a new conversation about Death.

Upcoming books: “I Don’t Know, It’s a Mystery: 11 Prompts to Awaken Your Cosmic Connection” ”The Four R’s: Rules to Navigate Life’s Big Questions,” “Head Off, Heart On: Salacious Delights and Tantalizing Treats for Happy Relationships”

 

 

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“Tribe-Time: We Can All Benefit. It’s a Unity in Our Commonality Kind of Thing”

Have you noticed how the word tribe is becoming part of daily conversation in urban to business speak?

Tribe:
a social division in a traditional society consisting of families or communities linked by social, economic, religious, or blood ties, with a common culture and dialect, typically having a recognized leader. synonyms: ethnic group, people, band, nation.

The emotional surge behind this societal wave is to seek, reach out beyond our boundaries, and discover our own special, unique tribe, uniting us to a sense of commonality and community, and ease this sense of isolation and loneliness that’s become pandemic in an over-communicating world.  A strange conundrum. Our world is growing exponentially. It is essential to feel part of something beyond ourselves, larger than who we are. It’s been proven we are happier, healthier beings when we are. We live into our elder years with grace and wisdom when part of a greater dynamic.

Here’s the question; have you thought about it? Your tribe? Is it something you seek? Could it add a greater sense of fulfillment to your story, your world? And if so, what kind of tribe do you seek?

What who where is your special tribe? The tribe that is your best mirror, support and best buddy-pals that understand who you truly are?

Pertinent questions to put forth are:

1. Do I want to be part of a tribe?

2. Who best represents me?

3. Are they just my best friends?

4. Is my tribe the forest, earth and animals? (It can be just as valuable and awe-inspiring, motivating and inclusive.)

5. What are the most important elements in a group, the tribe I seek?

Values, size, demographics, proximity, sex, language, beliefs, politics, age, morals, religion, spirituality,  culture, goals, family, friendships, ethnicity, support, community, sports, experiences, diversity, knowledge, wisdom.

6. How to find and connect?

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I know this great guy. I asked him if he felt he was part of any kind of tribe. He had to ponder. He has multiple friends from various decades going back to high school, however in asking him, he didn’t feel he was really part of any of their tribes because his beliefs were different, his way of dealing with the world was through another lens, even when they’d been good friends throughout their multiple phases, adventures and personal relationships. They’d always had fun, laughed and partied, and were incredible athletes and musicians sharing experiences. In my opinion, that in itself is tribal, a band of decade-traversing brothers. Its’s just a different version.

Does the story of Kokopelli ring any bells? Kokopelli is a mythological character I believe is based on real stories. He was a traveling salesman of sorts, a minstrel, flute player, storyteller, a ladies man having women in every village from Central America to the Southwest, a bringer of good tidings. Every community was thrilled to have him stop, share wild tales, trade valuable and needed goods, bring news of the tribes and of course contribute his seed to further the possibility of a baby Kokopelli gracing their circle. He was part of the larger tribe without really being part of one. Much like my friend.

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There are multiple threads, stories and tribes. No one way is The way.

I’ve thought about it personally. What are the most valuable attributes I consider indicative of fellow tribal members? First of all, I feel I’m part of multiple tribes representing various aspects and personality archetypes. They’re supportive. Comedic. Visionary. Insightful. Creative. Builders. Doers. Athletic. See life through a much larger lens. Thinkers. Inventors. Historians. Wise. Deep. Intuitive. Multitalented and multidimensional. Are of service to themselves and the world. Loving life is essential.

I would invite you to create your own list. I’m glad I did. It really puts in black and white, exactly who and what I love. It really identifies exactly what is internally important, to support the inner me, you, us. The next step is to reach out, connect, communicate. Those already in your tribe-circle, let them know how much you value their energy in your life. Show appreciation. If you desire more, then it’s time to step up, reach out, join meet-up groups, community social media chat circles, bowling clubs. In creating a greater connection to who we are, we are happy. When we are happy, we share that goodness.

To our special tribes.  In truth, we are really part of multiple tribes that all merge into one human tribe. Even in our diversity. That’s what makes us rich.

Thank you for being part of mine, just by reading this. To making magic.

Cosmic sunshine to you.

 

 

Candia Sanders is an international medical intuitive, high-frequency energy healer, motivator, speaker, teacher, author, the ultimate optimist, and outdoor enthusiast, who has helped thousands of people ease their medical issues, navigate important relationships and find their soul’s purpose and life direction.Candia is the author of the transcendent book, “Soul Rays: Discover the Vibratory Frequency of Your Soul“. She has also written a lively magical and spiritual children’s adventure called “The Adventures of Jack Starr, In Hawaii.” “When Eagles Soar: From Diagnosis, Death to Dreams and Open Dialogue” is her story through cancer and beyond with her husband who died in 2016. Her goal is to create a new conversation about Death.

Upcoming books: “I Don’t Know, It’s a Mystery: 11 Prompts to Awaken Your Cosmic Connection” ”The Four R’s: Rules to Navigate Life’s Big Questions,” “Head Off, Heart On: Salacious Delights and Tantalizing Treats for Happy Relationships”

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Cosmic Connection Number 2: The Cosmic Spin

Perhaps it’s Time for new circuitry, a new circular revolution. Humanity is in this counter-intuitive, counter-productive spin, we’ve been taught since ages past, is the right way to be, think and act. Is this really true? What might be perfect for you could be absolutely inaccurate for someone else. Time for a re-think. A paradigm shift in awareness. A new cycle, a circumvolution to literally shift our consciousness to a higher vibe, a better location on the galactic map.

Is it any wonder life has always been symbolically depicted as the circle? The whole: no beginning and no end. Life in all its mastery, and continual evolving, expanding state of the present moment, is always spinning through creation.

This moment, right “Now,” is time to jump-start a new positive cycle, break from the past, joggle things up a bit and get some clarity on different aspects of life. Get things moving in the right direction. Whatever: relationships, health, a job, a move, sex, etc.  A combo-platter of metaphor, visualizations and shaking the tree, seeing what rattles loose, literally creates a new picture on an old image or situation, to anchor the highest, happy-go-light-ly gravitational spin into consciousness.

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Here’s the visual, something to wrap our minds around as an avenue to clarity. The saying “As Above, So Below,” is the perfect, appropriate analogy for the outer-limits we are traveling:

As Above: the Cosmos.
So Below: You.

What if:

We are the Sun in our own special unique solar system filled with planets and moons and asteroids and comets and everything in the colorful cosmos. We are at the helm, the center, this bright-white-light of heat and energy, and have our loved ones in our orbit moving in our spin, like planets in a gravitational rotation. A few dastardly and testy and nasty ones circle too. What orbit would be the same without a few villains? In addition to the rich spice they add, they also provide the best vehicles for speedy growth and positive change. We love the bad guys!

Everything is moving, rotating, revolving in the right direction until, whoops, Retrograde happens. We discern the illusion of going back in position or time. We get caught in the counter-spin of negativity and past programming. Things stop. Life slows and chaos ensues. Things go awry and people stray off course and out of our orbit.

Much like the planets themselves in their orbital spin around the sun, they too move into retrograde, standing still for points in time, their rotation. 

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Here’s the kicker: it’s Our Orbit, Our Solar System. We are the brightest star. We just stopped shining our light. Time to reignite. Pay attention to our thoughts, our words. Feel what keeps us spinning in the right direction, maintains our best orbit. Keeps us from retrograde revolution.

Examples:

Relationships:
Counter-spin: He’s/she’s great but I’m not sure what’s going to happen?
Positive rotation: He’s/she’s great and I’m excited to see what happens.

Health:
Counter-spin: I feel tired and unmotivated.
Positive rotation: I am working on revving my energy today by eating right, getting some exercise, doing something fun and going to bed at a reasonable time.

Job:
Counter-spin: I’m really tired of this job.
Positive rotation: I’m focusing on all the good things about this job while I’m actively seeking something that will inspire me.

A move:
Counter-spin: I don’t like where I live; I want to move, but where?
Positive rotation: I’m ready for a change in my environment. As of today, I’m looking for the place that feels right to live.

Sex:
Counter-spin: Ugg! Do we have to have sex tonight?
Positive rotation: I’m so fortunate to be in a relationship where my partner desires me.

Feel the differences? Positive spin or counter-rotation in the energy and feelings behind the words, thoughts and intentions? Ironically, most of the time we are in retrograde. Even when we think and believe we are saying the right things, fear, worry, judgment, guilt, you name it, surfaces in our conversations, all retrograde thinking.

So be the Sun. The brightest, most brilliant Star in the cosmos, our personal solar system.

If you need extra help getting your revolution happening, seriously, be the dervish. Spin baby spin. Literally. Move, with your arms stretched out at your sides, in a clockwise rotation. Spin slowly at first, adding revolutions daily. Work up to 21 times: 2+1=3. The Jupiter of numbers, the happy care-free energy of happiness and joy.

Feel your words. Listen with your heart if you’re in the best magical evolution of thoughts, communication and action, translating into Be-ing: being in your joy. If not, time to stop, realign, and reignite the positive spin.

Essentially the cosmic spin of your soul.

Excerpted from one of my upcoming books, “I Don’t Know, It’s a Mystery: 11 Prompts to Awaken Your Cosmic Connection”

 

Cosmic sunshine to you.

 

Candia Sanders is an International Medical Intuitive, High Frequency Healer, Author and Speaker -an Eternal Optimist- who has helped countless thousands of people ease their medical issues, navigate important relationships and find their soul’s purpose and life direction. Candia is also the author of the transcendent new book, “Soul Rays: Discover the Vibratory Frequency of Your Soul“. She has also written a lively magical and spiritual children’s adventure called “The Adventures of Jack Starr, In Hawaii.”
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Upcoming Books:

‘Always Connected: What Cancer Taught Me About Chaos, Clarity, and Consciousness and the Mystical Adventure of Death.”

“I Don’t Know, It’s a Mystery? 11 Prompts to Awaken Your Cosmic Connection”

”The Four R’s: Rules to Navigate Life’s Big Questions”

“Head Off, Heart On: Salacious Delights and Tantalizing Treats for Happy Relationships”

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